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Right now I feel silly even talking about this, I almost feel like Im obsessing over a high school crush or something LOL. But Im 22 now and earlier today I've been upset all day because a guy I met online.
I was visiting the town and actually leaving today but decided to meet him before I left (I live 4 hours away). We met up this afternoon and when he seen me he acted welcoming and cool as if he liked me. He also got me a drink. but then almost 5 min. into sitting down he starts the text game, which I knew clear it was not only disrespectful but obviously he wasnt interested.
But what really upsetted me is he says, "oh my sister is texting me, she wants to meet up for lunch". And then he says that we can meet up later on "at 7". Then after a few more text and questions from him I say, "hey, if you're not feeling me like that and Im not your type, just let me know and I can leave". But then he says, "oh no its not that, she's actually texting me. If you werent my type I would have told you I'm going with my sister and going to be gone the whole day". But he insisted he would meet me up later and hangout.
First of, as soon as I left the place...I knew it was B.S. I didnt even call or text him back and neither did he. He said he would text me when he got to his sisters home. I ended up driving back home almost immediately after I left. He knew I was in town and that I didnt have all day to wait around on him, he should have just said something.
I know he isnt worth to even be thinking about this hours later with practically a stranger...but its not even so much that I wasnt his type, its just the fact he made up this beautifully scripted lie, and didnt even follow through with the plans (and even if all was true, I would have left town anyway because how can you put your sister who you probably see everyday over a date?) I tell you, some guys really dont deserve to be dating.
That damn texting crap is for the birds!
I would have thanked him for the drink, and left before he had a chance to tell his lie.
LOL, I really was about to and I think if that ever happens again I'll tel them save it and leave. I hate to say this guy was a 'liar, a creep, etc' because I know what its like to be in a situation with someone you dont like, but I'll tell them, "hey the vibe is not there" instead of making up some fairy tell. Seemed like he just said anything he could just to get away from me. That makes me feel even worse than if he just told the truth.
Right now I feel silly even talking about this, I almost feel like Im obsessing over a high school crush or something LOL. But Im 22 now and earlier today I've been upset all day because a guy I met online.
I was visiting the town and actually leaving today but decided to meet him before I left (I live 4 hours away). We met up this afternoon and when he seen me he acted welcoming and cool as if he liked me. He also got me a drink. but then almost 5 min. into sitting down he starts the text game, which I knew clear it was not only disrespectful but obviously he wasnt interested.
But what really upsetted me is he says, "oh my sister is texting me, she wants to meet up for lunch". And then he says that we can meet up later on "at 7". Then after a few more text and questions from him I say, "hey, if you're not feeling me like that and Im not your type, just let me know and I can leave". But then he says, "oh no its not that, she's actually texting me. If you werent my type I would have told you I'm going with my sister and going to be gone the whole day". But he insisted he would meet me up later and hangout.
First of, as soon as I left the place...I knew it was B.S. I didnt even call or text him back and neither did he. He said he would text me when he got to his sisters home. I ended up driving back home almost immediately after I left. He knew I was in town and that I didnt have all day to wait around on him, he should have just said something.
I know he isnt worth to even be thinking about this hours later with practically a stranger...but its not even so much that I wasnt his type, its just the fact he made up this beautifully scripted lie, and didnt even follow through with the plans (and even if all was true, I would have left town anyway because how can you put your sister who you probably see everyday over a date?) I tell you, some guys really dont deserve to be dating.
If something didn't happen too him, then hes a d**k. Don't waste your time being angry over him.
Right now I feel silly even talking about this, I almost feel like Im obsessing over a high school crush or something LOL. But Im 22 now and earlier today I've been upset all day because a guy I met online.
I was visiting the town and actually leaving today but decided to meet him before I left (I live 4 hours away). We met up this afternoon and when he seen me he acted welcoming and cool as if he liked me. He also got me a drink. but then almost 5 min. into sitting down he starts the text game, which I knew clear it was not only disrespectful but obviously he wasnt interested.
But what really upsetted me is he says, "oh my sister is texting me, she wants to meet up for lunch". And then he says that we can meet up later on "at 7". Then after a few more text and questions from him I say, "hey, if you're not feeling me like that and Im not your type, just let me know and I can leave". But then he says, "oh no its not that, she's actually texting me. If you werent my type I would have told you I'm going with my sister and going to be gone the whole day". But he insisted he would meet me up later and hangout.
First of, as soon as I left the place...I knew it was B.S. I didnt even call or text him back and neither did he. He said he would text me when he got to his sisters home. I ended up driving back home almost immediately after I left. He knew I was in town and that I didnt have all day to wait around on him, he should have just said something.
I know he isnt worth to even be thinking about this hours later with practically a stranger...but its not even so much that I wasnt his type, its just the fact he made up this beautifully scripted lie, and didnt even follow through with the plans (and even if all was true, I would have left town anyway because how can you put your sister who you probably see everyday over a date?) I tell you, some guys really dont deserve to be dating.
That damn texting crap is for the birds!
I would have thanked him for the drink, and left before he had a chance to tell his lie.
Women text on dates too
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