Would you mind your partner getting a massage with a happy ending? (marriage, men)
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Okay, but some men don't get laid regularly and they don't have good sex at home. Obviously, your man is sated, but there are others who are not.
I think this is a good option for them. It's uncomplicated, unemotional, and gets the job done. What's wrong with that?
And you know there are TONS of married men doing this stuff. Wives have no idea what their husbands get up to.
That's like a whole other conversation though... I guess I'm just going back to your original post where you ask everyone what they personally think.
Tons of married men and women do all sorta of things, I guess getting a happy ending at the end of the massage is lesser of the evil, if you look at it this way.
You know Woof, I'm a pretty open-minded person, but it's just I would be insulted, why would he need this cheap thrill, when I can do it much better and longer. Besides, I can't see how men (especially the ones who get laid regularly) would enjoy it
If the woman is doing a good job keeping her man sexually satisfied (and vice versa), then he has no real reason to do it.
But as we all know, there are more than a few women who are not willing to keep up their end of the sexual part of a relationship. In those cases, I think a massage with a happy ending would be one of the most innocuous and acceptable forms of sexual release involving another person.
As for enjoying it: Have you ever had a good massage? They're great. And a nice hand job? Well, it may not be the best thing in the world but it isn't bad by a long shot. Put the two together -- massage + hand job -- and you have a pretty pleasurable experience.
And yes, Woof's point about all those "OTHER husbands" who are the ones fooling around is right on the mark.
Okay, but some men don't get laid regularly and they don't have good sex at home. Obviously, your man is sated, but there are others who are not.
I think this is a good option for them. It's uncomplicated, unemotional, and gets the job done. What's wrong with that?
And you know there are TONS of married men doing this stuff. Wives have no idea what their husbands get up to.
Woofers I know you have more sense than this. Obviously to open yourself up to sexual activity outside of your relationship, is ALLOWING for complications and emotions. THAT is what's wrong with it. And anyone with an IQ of an earthworm knows this.
If the woman is doing a good job keeping her man sexually satisfied (and vice versa), then he has no real reason to do it. .
This is the only point that matters, and I think a lot of females miss this very simple point at that. They think it has something to do with the actual stroke when that's only an activity.
Ladies, it's very simple.
If your man feels inclined to get his 'happy ending' elsewhere, you're not getting the job done somewhere, somehow. We all know there are females who do the bare basics; lay back and just let things flow, then there are females who could cripple you with their maneuvers. Some men want the former; some want the latter; some want one in between. It's up to you to find out what your man wants, and either (A) be that, or (B) accept that he's going to get his jollies elsewhere.
If the woman is doing a good job keeping her man sexually satisfied (and vice versa), then he has no real reason to do it.
But as we all know, there are more than a few women who are not willing to keep up their end of the sexual part of a relationship. In those cases, I think a massage with a happy ending would be one of the most innocuous and acceptable forms of sexual release involving another person.
As for enjoying it: Have you ever had a good massage? They're great. And a nice hand job? Well, it may not be the best thing in the world but it isn't bad by a long shot. Put the two together -- massage + hand job -- and you have a pretty pleasurable experience.
And yes, Woof's point about all those "OTHER husbands" who are the ones fooling around is right on the mark.
Well...I guess I always look at things from my own perspective, for me everything is mental, attraction starts from my brain and how a man challenges me and stimulates me intellectually...hence, I could never sleep with a random stranger whom I simply find physically attractive. The woman is most likely a stranger, most likely he is not attracted to her and it's just pure "sperm release" in my eyes.
This is the only point that matters, and I think a lot of females miss this very simple point at that. They think it has something to do with the actual stroke when that's only an activity.
Ladies, it's very simple.
If your man feels inclined to get his 'happy ending' elsewhere, you're not getting the job done somewhere, somehow. We all know there are females who do the bare basics; lay back and just let things flow, then there are females who could cripple you with their maneuvers. Some men want the former; some want the latter; some want one in between. It's up to you to find out what your man wants, and either (A) be that, or (B) accept that he's going to get his jollies elsewhere.
Do you try hard to be an idiot?
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