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Old 09-08-2009, 06:59 AM
 
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*wackos* lol

I am sorry..could not let that one go!
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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To me, the solution seems very simple: As has been stated, men who are sexually satisfied at home, do not stray.

So if you don't want your man going out to get a "happy" massage, give him one. Regularly.
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:31 AM
 
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Sorry, but there are people out there that have mental issues that cause them to cheat too. Its not just as simple as that. Of course men use that as an excuse to further abuse a woman he is cheating on.
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:33 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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To me, the solution seems very simple: As has been stated, men who are sexually satisfied at home, do not stray.

So if you don't want your man going out to get a "happy" massage, give him one. Regularly.
Wishful thinking
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:35 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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The only mental issue that can cause cheating is insecurity. This is also a simple fix: constantly reassure him that he's the only one for you and you desire him just as much as you did when you first met him.
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:40 AM
 
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Not really. There are tons of disorders that can lead to cheating. Just because you reassure a person that is broken...well...You can put gas in a car all you want..does not mean it will start up and function as it should.
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:45 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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Not really. There are tons of disorders that can lead to cheating. Just because you reassure a person that is broken...well...You can put gas in a car all you want..does not mean it will start up and function as it should.
This just sounds like an excuse to not take any responsibility for not keeping your man satisified. According to your logic, no matter what a woman does, a man will cheat, so then why bother to have committed relationships?

That's baloney and garbage. If you could get women who have been cheated on to be honest, I bet well over 98% of them had put sex and sexual activities on the back burner.
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Old 09-08-2009, 07:49 AM
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Location: MA/NH
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Default Would you mind your partner getting a massage with a happy ending?

I would mind, I would mind very much. Just as I wouldn't want him having a porn video collection on his computer or going to a strip club with his buddies and getting lapdances.

I don't care if he isn't emotional about the sperm release. And if he wants massages with a happy ending, then he only has to ask me for them.
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Old 09-08-2009, 08:05 AM
 
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This just sounds like an excuse to not take any responsibility for not keeping your man satisified. According to your logic, no matter what a woman does, a man will cheat, so then why bother to have committed relationships?

That's baloney and garbage. If you could get women who have been cheated on to be honest, I bet well over 98% of them had put sex and sexual activities on the back burner.
We are all hardwired on the animalistic level to seek new mates every 7 years or so. Monogamy was created for social control and very few biological creatures are mono-mates. There is no reason to bother with a committed relationship with people like that. Not everyone is made for committed relationships. I highly doubt your 98%. Sometimes everything being perfect will make people cheat in a form of personal destruction.
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Old 05-11-2011, 10:10 AM
 
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I would mind if my man got a "happy ending" from another woman. I constantly tell him that I will please him any where, any way, and any time he wants it, and I follow through with what I say, but he still cheats on me. He tells me that I satisfy him. I please him atleast once a day and sometimes more. I don't know what else I can do. I have never been unfaithful and I do whatever he asks of me. I love him and have been with him for over 6 years. I don't think he can ever be faithful to me and I don't understand why.
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