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Being in Atlanta for a while, I am very attractive, Kind, honest,loving romantic a Christian, and great morals..but unfortunately I always bump into wrong Men. They have almost the same qualities and I mean bad ones, but come in different packages. I am not dating anymore and I wonder why I am attracting such losers. I know there are Men also that attract bad women..why does this happen, and where can you meet great guy here in Atl..I am from DC..:
It may sound cliche, but you need to do things which illustrate the qualities/interests you have in a future spouse. Become active at your church and get involved in volunteer groups/activities within your local community. If possible become an active participant/board member in your neighborhood HOA.
Being in Atlanta for a while, I am very attractive, Kind, honest,loving romantic a Christian, and great morals..but unfortunately I always bump into wrong Men. They have almost the same qualities and I mean bad ones, but come in different packages. I am not dating anymore and I wonder why I am attracting such losers. I know there are Men also that attract bad women..why does this happen, and where can you meet great guy here in Atl..I am from DC..:
It may be where you're meeting that type of man....bars n'stuff are terrible places to meet quality people. You might try cruising Pet Smart, Home Depot, Lowes, etc. where normal men are often to be found.
Being in Atlanta for a while, I am very attractive, Kind, honest,loving romantic a Christian, and great morals..but unfortunately I always bump into wrong Men. They have almost the same qualities and I mean bad ones, but come in different packages. I am not dating anymore and I wonder why I am attracting such losers. I know there are Men also that attract bad women..why does this happen, and where can you meet great guy here in Atl..I am from DC..:
I don't think you attract losers; I firmly believe a good man is hard to find. "Babes" may want bad boys, but decent women do not.
I never thought I would find a decent guy, but about 13 years ago, I did. His morals, values, and caring ways are something I thought didn't exist.
I must tell you that he lives near Atlanta and has for a few years, so our relationship has been long distance for a while now. At our age, though, it's okay and anyway, something that can't be helped at present.
He is truly my knight in shining armor. He is respectful, romantic, caring, loving, and all those other adjectives for which you seem to be searching.
When you least expect it, it will happen. It did for me.
When you get into Home Depot or Lowes head to the hardware section and don't have your ear glued to your cell phone. How is that wonderful guy on aisle nine going to approach you if you're yaking on the phone?
When you get into Home Depot or Lowes head to the hardware section and don't have your ear glued to your cell phone. How is that wonderful guy on aisle nine going to approach you if you're yaking on the phone?
Also get rid of those flip-flops and that outfit that looks like jammies. Something very sheer that clings to the buns, black silk can be nice, especially in shorts. No chewing gum, do not figget with the car keys.
Never talk about needing screws, speak softly and talking / whisper about needing something to hold you. Tape measure clipped to your belt also shows you are the outdoors type but might do gardens.
Don't know about that one Good Guy still living close to Atlanta. Those deer cruise the neighborhoods. Might want to get him a vest for the birthday. Maybe even a hunting license.
I still ain't betting the dude in Aisle Nine is a Good Guy. But you got to do what you got to do. If those dudes at HD, Lowes actually knew anything they would be contractors. Go out and cruise the loading zone down at the end of the store where the contractors park. Do not use the sun glasses, keep them up in the hair and squint like those models do. Tons of guys are going to want to help you load that can of spray paint.
Location: Lots of sun and palm trees with occasional hurricane :)
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Cosmic you never cease to amaze me! You are a riot.
BTW.... I am a weekly, at minimum, shopper at Petsmart, Home Depot, Lowe's, Publix, Costco, etc. Yes, those are my fun outings. I have NEVER, ever, run into anybody that is remotely interesting in those places. I do, however, get to see and hold and cuddle with the cutest pets at my favorite Petsmart!
You gotta break out of your comfort zone. Start talking to and meeting guys who are completely different than what you are used to or comfortable with.
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