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Old 07-20-2012, 07:51 PM
 
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I am 24 years old and got out of a 4 year relationship about 3 months ago. I'm not looking to jump into anything serious but I started talking to this one guy I met through my friends boyfriend and he is awesome. So funny and easy to talk to and we have been texting just about everyday since I met him (middle of June). We went on 2 dates, the first to the movies and the second for dinner and drinks. On the second date we did everything except for sex and I'm really not one to move as quickly as we had. That was about 2 weeks ago. We still text just about everyday but there hasn't been talk of date 3 and the passed 2 days I haven't heard from him... I'm not sure what to think but i'd like to see him again.. Thoughts??
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Old 07-20-2012, 08:53 PM
 
Location: Australia
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Move on.
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Old 07-20-2012, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Australia
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What I meant was, you would've heard from him by now. You know this. Its a Friday where you are? What time of day/evening?
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Old 07-20-2012, 10:23 PM
 
Location: South Dakota
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I am 24 years old and got out of a 4 year relationship about 3 months ago. I'm not looking to jump into anything serious but I started talking to this one guy I met through my friends boyfriend and he is awesome. So funny and easy to talk to and we have been texting just about everyday since I met him (middle of June). We went on 2 dates, the first to the movies and the second for dinner and drinks. On the second date we did everything except for sex and I'm really not one to move as quickly as we had. That was about 2 weeks ago. We still text just about everyday but there hasn't been talk of date 3 and the passed 2 days I haven't heard from him... I'm not sure what to think but i'd like to see him again.. Thoughts??
Why don't you ask him out or to come over. If in doubt, make a move and you may soon have an answer.
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Old 07-21-2012, 02:00 AM
 
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I am 24 years old and got out of a 4 year relationship about 3 months ago. I'm not looking to jump into anything serious but I started talking to this one guy I met through my friends boyfriend and he is awesome. So funny and easy to talk to and we have been texting just about everyday since I met him (middle of June). We went on 2 dates, the first to the movies and the second for dinner and drinks. On the second date we did everything except for sex and I'm really not one to move as quickly as we had. That was about 2 weeks ago. We still text just about everyday but there hasn't been talk of date 3 and the passed 2 days I haven't heard from him... I'm not sure what to think but i'd like to see him again.. Thoughts??
Radical thought here but instead of asking the internet about where things are, you could just ask him. I mean crazy talk I know, but asking the one person who knows the answer to a question is usually a much, much better plan.
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Old 07-21-2012, 06:34 AM
 
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Yeah... well we live an hour and a half apart so I'm not sure if that has something to do with it? I just don't want to be too forward and chase him away.
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Old 07-21-2012, 06:41 AM
 
Location: FL
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Yeah... well we live an hour and a half apart so I'm not sure if that has something to do with it? I just don't want to be too forward and chase him away.
You're going to chase him away by asking if he wants to go out again? If that's the case he's a weirdo and you're crazy for wanting to be involved with a weirdo. Just ask the guy if he wants to go out again. It's not rocket science. Maybe he was satisfied with the jerking, fingering, & oral & really doesn't want anything else.
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Old 07-21-2012, 06:56 AM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Why not text - "when are we going to get together again?"

I could be wrong but it seems he's losing interest. Why not find out for sure and ask that simple question?

I can't relate to the whole texting thing. I'm old school and would rather pick up the phone and talk. But since the younger generation would rather text I'll stand by my suggestion.
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Old 07-21-2012, 07:05 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Seems in many suggestions to let him chase you. No I'm not a big advocate of this but seems males mainly like this.
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Old 07-21-2012, 07:26 AM
 
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His interest lies elsewhere. So should yours. Forget about him and move on.
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