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Because these guys are not really gay, they are straight or bisexual at best, but they play a certain game - being a metrosexual -that a certain kind of women adore.
Example : a friend of my former wife, who was a reporter in a Gay magazine, played being gay, dressed as a gay, went to gay bars - but he married and had 2 children .
In fact he was straight (well, maybe he had one gay experience or two just to be accepted in gay circles), and his wife and other intimate friends/family knew all along it was a charade just to be able to make a career in the gay press !
No, not in all cases. There are biologically homosexual men who do marry women.
A friend of mine was married to a gay man for 20 years. He finally told her he was gay on their 20th anniversary She said their sex life had always been great. He's now living with his boyfriend, and she's remarried.
This is exactly what I don't get! If you're gay, how are you even performing in the first place? It just doesn't make sense to me....
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What woman wouldn't marry a man who has a sense for fashion, and interior design, can cook, likes broadway shows and opera, always has the latest club music whenever they throw a party, and WANTS to go shoe shopping with her? A guy like that can fly under the radar for some time because she thinks he's "sensitive to her needs and is in tune with her". Before you know it she falls in love and they get married.
I don't know about you, but if I was a girl and a guy wanted to go shoe shopping with me, I would think something isn't right .
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I'd marry my gay friend, it would be a business deal though. My benefit would be to have his excellent insurance and benefits, his benefit would be the tax breaks. I have another gay friend who IS married but to a lesbian friend of his and he did it for the same reasons. They don't even live in the same area LOL
That's pretty interesting! I wonder what happens when their parents come to visit.....
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A gay friend of mine was married for 10 years or so. They had two kids. He grew up in a very religious home and did everything he thought he was supposed to do, despite knowing from a young age that he liked boys instead of girls. He just thought he would get over these feelings someday by living "the right way." He never acted on those feelings before or during his marriage, and his wife divorced him. Only one of his sons knows he is gay. His parents and siblings would disown him.
Basically the same thing as Tropical Trouble. I understand that some may have feelings for the same sex, but how are you performing on the opposite sex?
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An actual gay can't "perform" with a women, inasmuch as an hetero can't "perform" with people of the same gender. But it's so fashionable in our days and time to be labeled Gay, isn't it!
If your ex's friend had to "perform" to be accepted, this theory wouldn't work out, unless he wasn't in a normal state of mind.
Wow. He sounds like a selfish manipulative jerk and a loser.
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A friend of mine was married to a gay man for 20 years. He finally told her he was gay on their 20th anniversary She said their sex life had always been great. He's now living with his boyfriend, and she's remarried.
I'm pretty sure "sham marriages" are illegal. Be careful with that.
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I'd marry my gay friend, it would be a business deal though. My benefit would be to have his excellent insurance and benefits, his benefit would be the tax breaks. I have another gay friend who IS married but to a lesbian friend of his and he did it for the same reasons. They don't even live in the same area LOL
If you are truly gay. You will not get a boner when you see a woman's naked body. A gay man's ding dong will shrivel up or stay flaccid. I kid you not.
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This is exactly what I don't get! If you're gay, how are you even performing in the first place? It just doesn't make sense to me....
I don't know about you, but if I was a girl and a guy wanted to go shoe shopping with me, I would think something isn't right .
That's pretty interesting! I wonder what happens when their parents come to visit.....
Basically the same thing as Tropical Trouble. I understand that some may have feelings for the same sex, but how are you performing on the opposite sex?
If your ex's friend had to "perform" to be accepted, this theory wouldn't work out, unless he wasn't in a normal state of mind.
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She said their sex life had always been great. He's now living with his boyfriend, and she's remarried.
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