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It's true you aren't obligated to deal with him and you don't want to get involved but you are to a degree just because you live there. She's not asking you to do anything but deny him entry. That's as simple as "She's not here, do you want me to have her call you when she gets home?".
Is there any threat of violence, has she told you yet about what happened?
I agree. He's not a resident of the house, doesn't have a key, is allowed in only as an invited guest. It's a very simple thing and no need for anyone to conjure up a whole bunch of speculative drama.
However, I realized that her being an ex didn't have any bearing on it. If there was any threat of violence, it is in my nature to do something to protect ANY woman. I wouldn't let that slide, no matter who it was.
If he destroys YOUR property then call the police and file a report.
When seconds count, the police are just minutes away. I don't believe in calling someone else to deal with any problem I'm having. I've had someone break into my home before and try to steal my landlord's TV. Should have done it when I wasn't home though. I took care of it...and he never came back.
When seconds count, the police are just minutes away. I don't believe in calling someone else to deal with any problem I'm having. I've had someone break into my home before and try to steal my landlord's TV. Should have done it when I wasn't home though. I took care of it...and he never came back.
Well done, Sly. Why do you keep stirring up such drama? You didn't speak to your room-mate yet? Did the boyfriend yet come around? Why all this speculation about dramatic blowups and fights and doors crashing in?
I agree with STT, too dramatic. She sent the text telling you don't let him in the house. He's now an ex, she doesn't want him coming over and going through her stuff. Pretty simple. It's not his house right?
You say if he comes over you'll handle it. Ok. Sounds to me like you've got things under control. Carry on.
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