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Old 09-24-2009, 11:05 PM
 
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I'd rather be ugly and an ass, so people would leave me alone.
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Old 09-25-2009, 01:01 PM
 
Location: EPWV
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Do you REALLY want a woman who only cares about your looks and nothing else?? I'm pretty sure that's the definition of hooker.
Naw, hookers like their johns with moolah. If you don't have the money, I don't think the hooker is going to spend any time with you.
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Old 09-25-2009, 01:07 PM
 
Location: EPWV
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oh well yeah,one guy I knew I mentioned on another thread was like that.See this is why the definition of nice gets different opinions depending.


I am a *nice* guy at times but sometimes I'm not,I'm never a evil prick that back stabs but sometimes I may make someone go arghh!!! at me.

I can tell you this,a guy that is called nice by a woman is loosing his edge with her and is in danger of either being dumped or put into the friends only zone.Right or wrong almost always that is the case.
Wondering just what kind of *girls* you're hanging around with
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Old 09-25-2009, 01:10 PM
 
Location: EPWV
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then I wouldn't be the man for you because my agenda in a bedroom can't be posted in detail on a public forum and it is not nice at all but dirty dirty dirty......

I don't want to think about respecting you
I want to do all those dirty things unspeakable on a PG forum.I want to respect your wants but not in a oh dear I love kind of way.

There is a time for *nice* but there is a time for not......
Never mind,..based on what I've read here, I'm getting the idea of the so-called girls you'd like anyways.
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Old 09-25-2009, 01:12 PM
 
Location: southern california
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not always A or B, sometimes they are a jerk and ugly too. looks and behavior are coincidental if anything its easier to be a jerk if you are pretty.
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Old 09-25-2009, 04:51 PM
 
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Id say good looking but an ass,much easier to find a mate if youre attractive people will put up with whatever your negatives qualities,good looking people are treated much better in society and fawned over..Plus you can change /alter yuor personality to get what you want..

Great person but ugly your gonna be lonely for awhile..
The sad paradox is that if you're ugly, few will hang around long enough to find out whether you are a decent sort. And there are many who just assume that ugly = bad, even when the evidence is stong to the contrary. Most of society has been brainwashed by TV, in this respect.

Look at it this way. People don't spend enormous sums at plastic surgery for no reason.
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Old 09-25-2009, 11:35 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Of course I would. Nothing about what I stated was a denial of that fact. Keeping my attention is the key. So how exactly am I lying by stating that an ugly man can become more attractive through his personality? You should see the men I have dated. Most were ugly by most standards. So nyeh.
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Old 09-26-2009, 06:24 AM
 
Location: Houston
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Beauty without character is like a masterpiece painted on a napkin
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Old 09-26-2009, 06:57 AM
 
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The sad paradox is that if you're ugly, few will hang around long enough to find out whether you are a decent sort. And there are many who just assume that ugly = bad, even when the evidence is stong to the contrary. Most of society has been brainwashed by TV, in this respect.

Look at it this way. People don't spend enormous sums at plastic surgery for no reason.
and the reverse is true, if your good looking you can be an ass and no one will notice unless you are such a huge ass they can't help but notice.

So...I'd rather be good looking and sort of an ass.
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:14 AM
 
Location: In my mind
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I'm the not good looking (pretty woman) but I'm a good person .....

To me it's not what you look like or what you have, it's how you treat me and how you make me feel that's important. Being attracted to someone for looks only may fade, as the personality comes to the surface.

Personally I think it's better to be a good person because what's inside comes through to the outside and the outside changes with age, no matter how much you don't want it to.
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