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Old 09-26-2009, 09:40 AM
 
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If she's "catty" gift her a can of cat food with a note of how catty she was.
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Old 09-26-2009, 09:51 AM
 
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I was at the grocery store today. My checker was someone that went to college with me. I have not seen her in years. At that time I was 18, 5'6" & 105 lbs. Painfully thin really. Now I am 34, 5"6" & 130lbs. I said "Oh hi Lisa how are you?" She smirked and said "Oh goodness you have gotten so fat I hardly recognized you!" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

I took the high road but I didn't want to. Heifer.
Funny thing as I clicked on this thread, my cat who is a female started meowing and tried to jump on my lap.
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Old 09-26-2009, 09:56 AM
 
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If 5'6" and 130lbs is fat, I'd hate to see what thin is.

That is nowhere near fat, obese, chunky or otherwise. I'm a guy and i'm 5'3 and 120lbs and I'm not fat at all. Just undertall.
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:42 AM
 
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Some women are catty.

We have 2 that sit outside our school and rip apart the other parents who come by to pick up their kids. I hardly go to pick up my son (I drop him off, hubby picks him up).

He pointed out these two heifers to me and said "They make fun of everyone who walks by."

What is this, first grade? Gee, grow up. As far as what your 'friend' said, well, she is obviously unhappy, just like everyone else who cuts others down for no reason.

And, by the way, a person being obese, chunky, fat, ugly, in a wheel chair, limping, or whatever still doesn't deserve to be picked on...
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:47 AM
 
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I was at the grocery store today. My checker was someone that went to college with me. I have not seen her in years. At that time I was 18, 5'6" & 105 lbs. Painfully thin really. Now I am 34, 5"6" & 130lbs. I said "Oh hi Lisa how are you?" She smirked and said "Oh goodness you have gotten so fat I hardly recognized you!" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

I took the high road but I didn't want to. Heifer.
I am shocked. How can someone with 5"6 height with 130 lbs be fat?

You know that something was evidently bugging her in her life, right?
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:50 AM
 
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I am actually very comfortable with my body. I have muscle, definition, curves that I didn't have then. It was just a mean dirty thing to say, I wasn't prepared, & it stung. I had heard (small town) that she lost her nursing license for diverting drugs but I would NEVER have asked her about that. I was genuinely glad to see her as I had once considered her a friend. Heifer.
I didn't read this before I read the next post (I know, bad me!).

Well, she's going to hurt for a long, long time. And kudos to you for taking the high road. There was no need for that remark. But she had to hurt you because she's hurting for herself...ah, she had to leave the profession you are currently in!!!

I'd kill her with kindness in the future. She made her own bed; now she has to lay in it.

Meanwhile, you keep on moving forward...
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:56 AM
 
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Did she look like a skeletor?

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I was at the grocery store today. My checker was someone that went to college with me. I have not seen her in years. At that time I was 18, 5'6" & 105 lbs. Painfully thin really. Now I am 34, 5"6" & 130lbs. I said "Oh hi Lisa how are you?" She smirked and said "Oh goodness you have gotten so fat I hardly recognized you!" grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.

I took the high road but I didn't want to. Heifer.
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Old 09-26-2009, 10:57 AM
 
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If the majority of society had "love" and respect for their fellow human being, this world would be such a great, happy and less stressful place IMO.

These type episodes / things would never happen.
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Old 09-26-2009, 04:18 PM
 
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I saw your pic in your profile.
Jealousy.
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Old 09-26-2009, 04:34 PM
 
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Wemens is nasty creatures.

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