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Old 10-13-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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You could always walk up and kick him in the nards, then loudly announce that you didn't think his wife would much appreciate the fact he was swapping spit with another woman! You wouldn't have to say anything to the wife after that. With his nards on ice, he probably wouldn't be cheating anyway.
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Old 10-13-2013, 11:24 AM
 
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That's girl code of course.

But if its the other way around(she's cheating on him) most women wouldn't say crap. It is what it is though
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Old 10-13-2013, 11:37 AM
 
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You could always walk up and kick him in the nards, then loudly announce that you didn't think his wife would much appreciate the fact he was swapping spit with another woman! You wouldn't have to say anything to the wife after that. With his nards on ice, he probably wouldn't be cheating anyway.
I wouldn't advise someone to turn to violence, it can go wrong for her side. Besides, that's the thing. You would have to be really sure he was cheating, otherwise it could be a misunderstanding.

My father's brothers are identical twins. One day a woman came up to my aunt and told her she should be more careful with what her husband was up to. She said "Don't worry, my sister-in-law is an excellent person."
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Old 10-13-2013, 02:10 PM
 
Location: Texas
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You should never do anything about such cases. You never know if they are going to be pleased that you told them or mad becase you're trying to destroy their relationship. Better stay quiet.
Let's review.....you see Spouse A cheat on Spouse B. You tell Spouse B about it and you destroyed the relationship?? Did you really think this through before you wrote it?
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Old 10-13-2013, 02:13 PM
 
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Let's review.....you see Spouse A cheat on Spouse B. You tell Spouse B about it and you destroyed the relationship?? Did you really think this through before you wrote it?
You didn't get it. What I said is that you never know how people will react. Some could believe in you. Others could say you are just trying to destroy the relationship because you have other intentions.
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Old 10-14-2013, 03:53 AM
 
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YES tell her. She needs to know so she can STOP wasting her time and energy on him!
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Old 10-14-2013, 05:01 AM
 
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Tell him to tell her or you will... make him chose
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Old 02-12-2021, 04:00 PM
 
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Tell your friend what you saw. Only what you saw. Don't infer he is cheating on her. Just let her deduce that for herself.
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Old 02-12-2021, 05:04 PM
 
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Tell your friend what you saw. Only what you saw. Don't infer he is cheating on her. Just let her deduce that for herself.
Well, 11 1/2 years later since the original post - I suspect that the issue is resolved by now
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