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ummm...I dont know what you call a "true woman" but if a man won't kiss me, why would he deserve other acts that he wants? I don't know what kind of women you know..lol
In my past experiences, it's not me that's not willing to kiss. Many women opt to go straight for the gusto. I have found that it is more about WHAT THEY WANT!
In my past experiences, it's not me that's not willing to kiss. Many women opt to go straight for the gusto. I have found that it is more about WHAT THEY WANT!
interesting...I have never been like that and I can't imagine doing all kinds of sexual activities (including sex itself) without ever having kissed the guy.
For me, kissing is very important, not only is an important part of the relationship but it's important that my partner be as good of a kisser as me or better. I think kissing is a very intimate and sensual way to be with your partner.
I have found that kissing is more of an intimate act than sex for many women. There is something about swapping spit with a stranger that pushes them away. Many women will go down on a guy before they dare to smack lips. I have never understood it, personally. Maybe a true woman could share the reason why that is!
You are describing me. I have had sex without kissing a guy. Most guys I date I dont ever kiss. I feel like, I have to really like you to kiss you. If we have a roll in the sack, then that is just what it is. I equate kissing to emotional feelings, I equate sex to sex. You can do one without the other.
To the OP, kissing is a deal breaker if I thought I wanted to be in a relationship with a guy. If he couldnt kiss I would be highly disappointed. I would try to show him though, since I have to really like you to even kiss you. But if he couldnt get it right, to the door you go!
Many of us enjoy kissing no doubt, but the question is, "how important is it to you?". Is it a dealbreaker that someone is a good kisser? Or whether they like doing it? Some people don't like to kiss a lot during sex, other than during foreplay. In fact, I realized before, that I started a similar thread two years ago after reading an article on this very subject. It was about how most women would like lovemaking to include more kissing. So here it is again, what is your opinion?
It's EXTREMELY important to me. A bad kisser is a dealbreaker. I've only been with one woman who was a bad kisser. It's true what they say. If a person's a bad kisser, the sex won't be great either. Kissing shouldn't just occur during sex and it shouldn't be done out of obligation. You can tell a lot about how someone feels by the way they kiss. In a lot of ways, it conveys more meaning than making love does.
You are describing me. I have had sex without kissing a guy. Most guys I date I dont ever kiss. I feel like, I have to really like you to kiss you. If we have a roll in the sack, then that is just what it is. I equate kissing to emotional feelings, I equate sex to sex. You can do one without the other.
To the OP, kissing is a deal breaker if I thought I wanted to be in a relationship with a guy. If he couldnt kiss I would be highly disappointed. I would try to show him though, since I have to really like you to even kiss you. But if he couldnt get it right, to the door you go!
But hey, thats just me!
You are not the lone ranger on that, by any means. I think many women feel that way. Sex is a carnal need. Kissing is an emotional need. This is why you rarely see kissing in porn. The girls save that act for their husbands/boyfriends when they get home from the set.
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just love to kiss 
