How do you overcome shyness when you see someone you want to meet? (boyfriend, how to)
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I don't know how to describe it; you see a pretty girl in a cafe or at a bookstore or in a bar; she's beautiful, pretty, but for some reason, you can't bring yourself over to go up and talk to her.
And when you try, your mouth becomes dry and your palms start to sweat. Your doubts and insecurities all come up while you're trying to think of something unique or clever to say, and before you do, you either give up, still thinking and planning, or she's walked away.
And you feel like a coward afterwards for not talking to her.
I don't know how to describe it; you see a pretty girl in a cafe or at a bookstore or in a bar; she's beautiful, pretty, but for some reason, you can't bring yourself over to go up and talk to her.
And when you try, your mouth becomes dry and your palms start to sweat. Your doubts and insecurities all come up while you're trying to think of something unique or clever to say, and before you do, you either give up, still thinking and planning, or she's walked away.
And you feel like a coward afterwards for not talking to do.
What do you do? How do you come over this?
You sound like a young man. Don't beat yourself up about it.
Try approaching someone that does not intimidate you so much. It may take awhile but when you get a positive response relish it. Hopefully, after a few positive responses, your self-esteem/ego won't be affected by a negative response. Then you're off and flying.
There are females that may find your shyness appealing.
Confidently shy is not bad.
Come out of your comfort zone for a bit, its like practicing riding a bike,
then it becomes second nature.
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