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This is a great question, OP. I've tried to recognize these things, but women are so much less obvious about being attracted to someone than men are. That said, I did notice a very attractive woman at church yesterday staring at me and smiling. I was so caught off guard that I did nothing. Well, I did hang around for a second looking for her after I walked out (service was over), but didn't see her follow behind me. Missed opportunity. But typically, I never catch anyone checking me out. Its not that I'm unaware, as I'm usually looking up, not at my phone, but it just doesn't happen.
I did stop by an auto body shop over the weekend about getting my windshield replaced. The woman behind the counter (admin assistant) was so cute! I was telling the story of how a truck kicked up a rock off the road and it shattered my windshield and that I wanted to chase the guy down and tell him. She just smiled and laughed. She laughed at other things I said too. I was so caught off guard (per usual) that I didn't ask her if she was single or flirt with her. However, I will go back and maybe ask the manager if she is single. Hmm...
That reminds me about 4 weeks ago in church service I caught a woman looking at me. When my eyes looked at her she quickly looked down hoping I didn't see her looking at me. But I caught her. She's sitting next to her husband.
If a woman laughs frequently at things you say is a strong sign of attraction or interest. There is a woman I know that laughs frequently at my joking type remarks. One time, she started laughing and couldn't stop. All I did was come up to stand next to her. Another time I made a funny comment and she started laughing intensely. The good news is I like this woman so this is really good.
And one time I accidentally bumped into a woman at church who always has a serious face around me and the bump caused her to start giggling almost uncontrollably. I have thus discovered the secret way to find out if a woman likes you- 'accidentally' bump into her. And see her reaction, which will be spontaneous.
Growing up if you have always been receiving glances won't you think it's just normal that you get looked at and it means nothing special? So how would you know if you are getting noticed?
Growing up if you have always been receiving glances won't you think it's just normal that you get looked at and it means nothing special? So how would you know if you are getting noticed?
Presumably because at some point a person asks out/is asked out by the one scoping them or has some other sort of interaction that confirms the attraction. Or, maybe they recognize their own behavior towards the people they feel attraction to, and note its similarities towards certain others’ behavior. They then learn to associate that behavior with attraction.
I have a blind spot when it comes to this. I usually don't know a girl is interested in me until she makes the first very direct move. Like kissing me or something similar. I think it's a self-esteem thing. It's hard for me to wrap my mind around someone being into me, so I think the part of me that is aware of others interest in me has just kind of atrophied.
It does help me keep faithful, though. Hard to cheat when you don't know who your options are.
Perfect! And you are also very attractive so its a win-win
Yes, so great ... but ...wait .. why am I single
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