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I haven't dated in....gosh, I bet it's been a year. In general, I don't think that guys are attracted to me, but last week I realized, too late, that this guy was trying to get to know me a little. When I'm in dating mode, it seems that lots of guys are attracted to me. Guess it depends what head I'm in.
I was wondering if people are ever attracted to you when ever you go out, do you ever gets looks that suggest some people want to get to know you more? Does any one here have fortunate enough to have tons of people coming up to them (I wish I was in that situation) when they go out to a bar or place with alot of single's because they percieve you as being very attractive?
With me, it all depends. When I have been running alot I never get looks because I dont care the least bit about fashion when I am running and it shows.
I guess sometimes I get glances from women or sometimes occasionally (not as much as some men) they will sit right next to me when I am one of the few people in the coffee shop when I go out. I guess I am more middle-of the road on the number of women who glance at me out and about who I feel might be attracted to me but then again I would consider myself very middle-of the road on looks so it all probubly makes sense
Too bad its never a guy though, being that I am gay. I guess alot of it is though that I am dont fit the gay stereotype though. Even in Denver in the gayborhood or in gay establishments for some reason people think I am straight.
Also, being gay with my looks it would probubly be easier if I was straight because more women seem to glance at me then men.
Oh well, thats just how I percieve the situation as being when I go out?
Well YEAH!!! What did you think~that I'm ugly?
Seriously, fortunately people do notice me. I'm definitely not a striking beauty or anything, but I'm petite and cute in a simple kind of way. The only makeup that I ever use is mascara at times and I don't dress fancy or anything. And fortunately as long as I keep the Lady Clairol handy, I look younger then I am, too. Or maybe it's just that I act younger then I really am.
I take good care of my self and stay in good shape, so when I go out to bars or clubs with my friends, I usually get a lot of female attention. I never do anything but talk to the girls for a while (I'm a good boy!). I have been told that this is "leading them on", even though I have on a wedding ring and don't do any "flirty-touching".... I don't do anything without my wife there that I wouldn't do when she is there.
This has lead my friends to give me a nickname (the real one would get bleeped), but it roughly translates to Cat-Tease.
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