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Bad boys are so much more fun then nice guys. The sex is always better. Actually better may not be correct. The sex is always HOTTER!
But the thing we women don't get is that we should NOT marry the bad boys! I did. We had some great times for a number of years but he will always be a bad boy and that's hard to deal with year after year. So now we're divorced.
To be honest the only way to have a relationship with a bad boy is if he's married. Then you get the very best of him....all the hot, exciting sex and then they go home and treat their wives like crap.
I'm still waiting for the nice guy to come along who sweeps me off my feet. Until he does, I'm hanging with the bad boys!
Bad boys are so much more fun then nice guys. The sex is always better. Actually better may not be correct. The sex is always HOTTER!
But the thing we women don't get is that we should NOT marry the bad boys! I did. We had some great times for a number of years but he will always be a bad boy and that's hard to deal with year after year. So now we're divorced.
To be honest the only way to have a relationship with a bad boy is if he's married. Then you get the very best of him....all the hot, exciting sex and then they go home and treat their wives like crap.
I'm still waiting for the nice guy to come along who sweeps me off my feet. Until he does, I'm hanging with the bad boys!
unfortunately for the nice guy,you'll probably walk all over him and have a bad boy on the side just like you don't mind messing around with a married guy..........
don't mean to be judgmental but I see it coming.......maybe I'm wrong.
sweep you off your feet.........lol
so guess what,when I (or any guy)tell ya I just want to friends with benefits and you wonder why I don't want to marry you,well there you go.
unfortunately for the nice guy,you'll probably walk all over him and have a bad boy on the side just like you don't mind messing around with a married guy..........
don't mean to be judgmental but I see it coming.......maybe I'm wrong.
sweep you off your feet.........lol
so guess what,when I (or any guy)tell ya I just want to friends with benefits and you wonder why I don't want to marry you,well there you go.
Very well put.. and I second that.. you cant have your cake and eat it too...
Why do women go for BAD BOY types?
I think its because they like men to have balls. Unless the woman is lesbian, which will then not like balls. make sense?
They like somebody that wont let themselves be stepped all over, and will kick some ass for her name.
Someone that doesnt seem to need them. Need is a sign of weakness and guys seem pathetic when they are weak in the knees at the first sign of a woman.
Why do women go for BAD BOY types?
I think its because they like men to have balls.
BRAVO!!!
People can say what they will about this issue, but the fact remains that the "bad boys" would have no business if the "other guys" would give women what they really want.
It's tough for many people to wrap their mind around...but, again, why do the "bad boys" get business? Maybe they have something that's attractive to women?
Women are FAR more likely to be physically abused or killed by their husband or boyfriend than a random intruder or other stranger. That's the cruel irony. Millions of women are getting beaten to a pulp by men they thought would protect them.
We need to socialize and educate women to do the opposite of what their primitive instinct tells them to do. Inform them that the strong protective type (i.e dominant) could have it in him to beat or even kill her, while she is safest with the nice guy she perceives as weak.
Of course many will disagree with me and call me names, but unless we change our caveman attitudes about strong-protective-bad boys, women will get abused by men until the end of time.
Cruel irony???? "We need to SOCIALIZE AND EDUCATE WOMEN"???? Women need to change their 'caveman attitudes" else they're doom to lifelong abuse????
So it's women who need to change? That "primitive instinct"???
WHAT?
The killers, the intruders, the beaters......guess who they are???? MEN!!
Let's start there. Then we can talk about the victim role. Quit beating and killing and we won't have to worry about it.
read all the posts. its would seem that women like excitment but are smart enough to know you gota balance that with some degree of stability in your life. i think that freedom is very precious to women, worth the risk. am i getting it?
No, actually, as women, we need to take some responsibility in all of this.
Um, yeah, we're strong enough, and intelligent enough, to know what we want and what is good or bad for us.
"Nice" guys. Meh, as far as I'm concerned.
"Dominant" men are the ones I go for. But, you know what? I understand the difference between dominance and abuse....
I do not seek dominance from anyone. I would guess that most abusive men could be characterized as "dominant". No thanks. I'll pass.
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