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Old 10-22-2009, 11:26 AM
 
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How would you interpret this comment? My ex wife, one time i asked her, why she loved me, she said because you treat me like a queen, because your sweet, you treat my kids like their yours and because "you put up with my sh%t" As you could see we not together so i got tired of her "*****" This girl im seeing now, told me the same thing when i asked her yesterday and it kinda turned me off, i dont want a carbon copy of my ex, already put up with enough
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I have heard the saying," Because nobody else would put up with your crap."
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:32 AM
 
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It usually means the girl realizes they're not perfect and that they appreciate you for accepting who they are.
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:40 AM
 
Location: USA
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I agree w/ Smerky. It appears to be more of a compliment to your acceptance and tolerance above all else. After all, aren't you appreciative when a woman puts up with your crap?
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:44 AM
 
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Why do people even ask that. Isnt it a rhetorical question?
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:46 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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How would you interpret this comment? My ex wife, one time i asked her, why she loved me, she said because you treat me like a queen, because your sweet, you treat my kids like their yours and because "you put up with my sh%t" As you could see we not together so i got tired of her "*****" This girl im seeing now, told me the same thing when i asked her yesterday and it kinda turned me off, i dont want a carbon copy of my ex, already put up with enough

It depends on the interpretation of "crap". Does she treat you like one of her kids, verbally demean you in some way, etc.?

If you can deal with her actions or attitudes then just roll with it. No one is perfect and it is really all about how much sh*t you are willing to put up with.
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:48 AM
 
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It can be a good thing, however "because you put up with my crap" is not excuse to *make* you put with crap. Crap may escape every now and then, but the reason you can put up with it is because it's the exception, not the rule.
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:48 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Dude-DO NOT judge girl #2 by girl #1's behavior. That would be a mistake. Women are individually amazing creatures and deserve to be judged on their own merit!
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:52 AM
 
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i just think that alot of times i put up with way more than they do, their so used to me being a good guy that any lil mistake gets amplified 10 fold! My ex used to go out 3 to 4 times a week and at the end i went out 3 times in a row and she blew a fuse!
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Old 10-22-2009, 11:53 AM
 
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Dude-DO NOT judge girl #2 by girl #1's behavior. That would be a mistake. Women are individually amazing creatures and deserve to be judged on their own merit!
you right captain dan, just dont feel like dealing w drama!
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