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Old 10-22-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Hi valeeighty2,

I went cold turkey for years so yes, its possible. It was not always easy especially once it was serious.
Hi there gwynedd1

I figured it can not be easy, specially for someone as horny (for luck of a better word) as the girl in this situation... but... I do believe it is a good thing to find someone like that, no?
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:20 PM
 
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LOLOLOL!!! Can't seem to spell right these days... LOL...
Admit it. You were looking a guy's rear when you were posting. this.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:23 PM
 
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Hi there gwynedd1

I figured it can not be easy, specially for someone as horny (for luck of a better word) as the girl in this situation... but... I do believe it is a good thing to find someone like that, no?
Hi valeeighty2,

The problem is when you give it up early, you can't tell if they are in it for the long haul by giving out short term rewards of that nature. Most men know monogamy sells, so polygamous men will sell them selves as monogamous. However a polygamous male will usually not pass the test to wait.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Hi valeeighty2,

The problem is when you give it up early, you can't tell if they are in it for the long haul by giving out short term rewards of that nature. Most men know monogamy sells, so polygamous men will sell them selves as monogamous. However a polygamous male will usually not pass the test to wait.
Say this real fast 3 times!
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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Admit it. You were looking a guy's rear when you were posting. this.
caught me!!! lol...
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:45 PM
 
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only time will tell

the more time she spends with him, the better sense she will have of who he is and what his motives are
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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only time will tell

the more time she spends with him, the better sense she will have of who he is and what his motives are
True...
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:55 PM
 
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only time will tell

the more time she spends with him, the better sense she will have of who he is and what his motives are
Hi Tzaphkiel,

Not if she sleeps with him.
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Old 10-22-2009, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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what if his package is below par of her standards?

In seriousness, if they are in to the christian belief of sex; I would suggest "Sheet Music" by Lehman; as it does presents importance to waiting, and sex as important part of the relationship.
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Old 10-22-2009, 01:08 PM
 
Location: Falls Church, VA
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what if his package is below par of her standards?

In seriousness, if they are in to the christian belief of sex; I would suggest "Sheet Music" by Lehman; as it does presents importance to waiting, and sex as important part of the relationship.
It has nothing to do with religion, of that I am sure... More like he has been burned before and wants to make sure the relationship will have a stronger foundation thant just sex...
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