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Old 10-24-2009, 01:05 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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SO I have known this woman for a while. We went out numerous times, and things progressed. She is the most attractive one I have dated, and probably the most attractive one I know period....

So why is it that I am probably less interested sexually in her than all the others I have dated? I feel no chemistry when we kiss, touch, etc... Yet I still find her ultra-attractive.

Could it be that I am growing up a bit, and that I feel no chemistry because her personality irritates the hell out of me quite often? I HOPE NOT!!!!

Ugh.....
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:07 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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SO I have known this woman for a while. We went out numerous times, and things progressed. She is the most attractive one I have dated, and probably the most attractive one I know period....

So why is it that I am probably less interested sexually in her than all the others I have dated? I feel no chemistry when we kiss, touch, etc... Yet I still find her ultra-attractive.

Could it be that I am growing up a bit, and that I feel no chemistry because her personality irritates the hell out of me quite often? I HOPE NOT!!!!

Ugh.....
Congratulations on having substance.
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:08 AM
 
Location: southern california
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the irritation could be the attraction?
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:09 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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If that was the case... I would be all over that. Now that I've had it... I just don't care.
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:10 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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Congratulations on having substance.
I've always had substance! I just kept it buried under my guy expectations!
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:12 AM
 
Location: Kansas to Rochester, NY
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I understand where you're coming from... Some gals I see, meet, and I'd feel like "hitting it and quitting it"... But if I see long-term relationship/wife potential in a gal, I have no desire in rushing things (i.e. sex) anytime soon that way I can work on getting to know this person because I actually get serious.

I'm kinda in the same situation as you. So I believe you may see something long-term with her and are wanting to progress with the relationship as casually as possible. Good luck man.
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:13 AM
 
Location: Iowa
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I am not thinking long-term is a possibility... she's effin crazy.

*revelation*

I think I just answered my own question.
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Old 10-24-2009, 01:16 AM
 
Location: Kansas to Rochester, NY
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Haha
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Old 10-24-2009, 07:29 AM
 
Location: Sunny Florida
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I am not thinking long-term is a possibility... she's effin crazy.

*revelation*

I think I just answered my own question.
Congratulations! Sometimes just talking it out helps us see what's been there all along.
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Old 10-24-2009, 08:32 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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I am so happy to hear when this happens...when a man looks beyond the beauty of a woman for substance! It's so beautiful...

Congratulations!
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