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Old 11-21-2009, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Central, IL
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Our female half is bi and it enhances our sexual fun...
Same here.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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I am sorry if this sounds harsh but I don't believe in bisexuality. I think just about any man has some type of fantasy when it comes to women who are bi but my morals tell me that something must be wrong there. I find it really hard to believe that someone can have a perfect healthy childhood, upbringing and family and be bisexual, I think bisexuality often hides a lot of pain, confusion and emotional dysfunction.

Sexually, I think It would be fun to date a bi girl for a while but It would be hard for me to tell my Mom that my wife is bisexual, usually, with the bi label, I get the idea of someone who is trashy, dysfunctional and wild which I don't really like.

For those who say that a bisexual wife enhances your sex life, the whole idea goes totally against my values and morals, in a way, I think it goes against the whole concept of marriage and what it is supposed to be.

Also, it would be hard for me to think that children would not be affected psychologically by a Mom that also likes women, I don't know, the whole thing is just bizarre.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:13 PM
 
Location: Central, IL
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I am sorry if this sounds harsh but I don't believe in bisexuality. I think just about any man has some type of fantasy when it comes to women who are bi but my morals tell me that something must be wrong there. I find it really hard to believe that someone can have a perfect healthy childhood, upbringing and family and be bisexual, I think bisexuality often hides a lot of pain, confusion and emotional dysfunction.

Sexually, I think It would be fun to date a bi girl for a while but It would be hard for me to tell my Mom that my wife is bisexual, usually, with the bi label, I get the idea of someone who is trashy, dysfunctional and wild which I don't really like.

For those who say that a bisexual wife enhances your sex life, the whole idea goes totally against my values and morals, in a way, I think it goes against the whole concept of marriage and what it is supposed to be.

Also, it would be hard for me to think that children would not be affected psychologically by a Mom that also likes women, I don't know, the whole thing is just bizarre.
Maybe that is part of your problem, you are so quick to judge and lable people, that you know nothing about.

And btw, most of the time the kids never have any clue that the mother is bi
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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Maybe that is part of your problem, you are so quick to judge and lable people, that you know nothing about.

And btw, most of the time the kids never have any clue that the mother is bi

No disrespect to anybody here BUT when I think of bisexual women, the first thing that comes to mind is strippers, porn stars or drunk college students

Like I said, I believe in honesty and I don't understand why someone would have to hide it from the kids if being bisexual is "NORMAL"

Once again, I am just stating how I feel, I am sorry if I offended anybody! I guess, people have different ideas of what is "right" and "wrong"
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:25 PM
 
Location: southern california
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sexual orientation does not ruin marriage. lack of disclosure ruins it.
cheating ruins it, swinging ruins it, but sexuality never ruins marriage.
lack of fidelity ruins everything.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Central, IL
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sexual orientation does not ruin marriage. lack of disclosure ruins it.
cheating ruins it, swinging ruins it, but sexuality never ruins marriage.
lack of fidelity ruins everything.

Yes we know, you know nothing about swinging, or the swinging lifestyle, you don't have to prove it over and over again. Millions of swingers stay married and never have problems.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:33 PM
 
Location: Central, IL
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No disrespect to anybody here BUT when I think of bisexual women, the first thing that comes to mind is strippers, porn stars or drunk college students

Like I said, I believe in honesty and I don't understand why someone would have to hide it from the kids if being bisexual is "NORMAL"

Once again, I am just stating how I feel, I am sorry if I offended anybody! I guess, people have different ideas of what is "right" and "wrong"
It isnt the fact of what you think is right or wrong. But thinking that bisexual women are all strippers, porn stars or drunk college students, is stereotyping. Many women that are bisexual are judges, doctors, main stream actresses etc...

It's not a case of having to hide it from the kids, but, how many parents tell their kids about every sexual escapade they have? Most parents don't discuss their sexual likes and dislikes with their children.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:34 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Yes we know, you know nothing about swinging, or the swinging lifestyle, you don't have to prove it over and over again. Millions of swingers stay married and never have problems.
you assume much friend.
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Old 11-21-2009, 02:36 PM
 
Location: Central, IL
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you assume much friend.
What am I assuming? You are making false claims. Either A, you don't know anything about the subject, hence the reasoning for those claims, or B, you just like the idea of making false claims!
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Old 11-21-2009, 07:05 PM
 
Location: southern california
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What am I assuming? You are making false claims. Either A, you don't know anything about the subject, hence the reasoning for those claims, or B, you just like the idea of making false claims!
neither. but i know and have seen the damage done. sing it.
neil young
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