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-"Live in the moment".
-"Just let it happen."
-"I'd stop but I can't."
-"If you don't want me to do this, I can't be with you anymore."
-"My life is hard".
-"I have a stressful life, I need to relax."
-"It feels good, so why not?"
-"You're my first (whatever)."
-"Until you tell me to stop, I'm not."
-"Don't do this to me." (This one, I'll give out because it works like hell, but I use it so much that I don't want to rely on it as much anymore.
-"Me and you, we shouldn't".
-"Someone will get hurt."
Just let the body language do the talking, though. Then go with it. In other words, quite literally, "follow your bliss". Or, "don't hit on her, hit by her". Or, just stand by her. Eye contact. Smile. Meek hi. Next thing you know, she's all over you.
So many different ways, it's absurd.
Really, it's about reading her situation, figuring out where her doubts lay (which she isn't aware of, usually), bringing it up, and alleviating those doubts. Easier said than done.
-"Live in the moment".
-"Just let it happen."
-"I'd stop but I can't."
-"If you don't want me to do this, I can't be with you anymore."
-"My life is hard".
-"I have a stressful life, I need to relax."
-"It feels good, so why not?"
-"You're my first (whatever)."
-"Until you tell me to stop, I'm not."
-"Don't do this to me." (This one, I'll give out because it works like hell, but I use it so much that I don't want to rely on it as much anymore.
-"Me and you, we shouldn't".
-"Someone will get hurt."
Just let the body language do the talking, though. Then go with it. In other words, quite literally, "follow your bliss". Or, "don't hit on her, hit by her". Or, just stand by her side.
So many different ways, it's absurd.
Really, it's about reading her situation, figuring out where her doubts lay (which she isn't aware of, usually), bringing it up, and alleviating those doubts. Easier said than done,
If she's sober, and I'm sober, and she puts herself into a situation in which it is very explicitly stated before hand that I will be making a move, then I am cleared of any responsibility.
People are adults.
My only thing, really, is if I'm not sober, and I can't read the situation properly anymore. It's at this point I can't do much with girls, since I'm too paranoid about waking up to some girl who'll go and scream rape.
It's funny, maybe she took advantage of me? It's not like I'd sleep with half the girls I attempt to sleep with while drunk when I'm sober. But, in the moment, she looks oh so good...
Next morning? "What was I thinking? You need to reevaluate your life, dub".
Next evening? "You see that girl there, with the flabby stomach? Is she not an angel? I must be dead, because this must be heaven".
Well one.. I'd laugh my a$$ off if any guy used any of what you listed on me. But two, I mean...just wow. Makes me wonder what is in a woman's brain to actually fall for this stuff. Gotta have some serious need for validation and subpar self worth to allow ANY line to get you in bed.
Well one.. I'd laugh my a$$ off if any guy used any of what you listed on me. But two, I mean...just wow. Makes me wonder what is in a woman's brain to actually fall for this stuff. Gotta have some serious need for validation and subpar self worth to allow ANY line to get you in bed.
It's very often the girls that think lines don't work on them that lines work on.
Maybe she just wants to have sex...why do you need to label them as having "no self worth"?
Maybe she has all the self worth in the world, but would like to "express herself sexually".
I'm just the medium. She's the artist.
lol, I'm horrible.
It's very often the girls that think lines don't work on them that lines work on.
Maybe she just wants to have sex...why do you need to label them as having "no self worth"?
Maybe she has all the self worth in the world, but would like to "express herself sexually".
I'm just the medium. She's the artist.
lol, I'm horrible.
If she wants to have sex--go for it! But to have a man convince you because of a line he said--I'm sticking with low self worth.
Also, wrong, lol, I've never had it work on me. If I want to have sex, I'm going to have it, but I can guarantee it has nothing to do with a line a man says.
because thats how womens sexuality is bashed upon, a girl cant want or enjoy sex without having sef esteem issues, be a *****, or have self worth. Its women imposing their views unto other women for being different.
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Originally Posted by dub dub II
It's very often the girls that think lines don't work on them that lines work on.
Maybe she just wants to have sex...why do you need to label them as having "no self worth"?
Maybe she has all the self worth in the world, but would like to "express herself sexually".
I'm just the medium. She's the artist.
lol, I'm horrible.
It takes effort and creativity for a man to get laid. Interesting posts.
lol. I'm not creative enough!
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