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Yes it does make me mad. We had a date for tonight. What could be so personal that he stand me up, and...and...ugh Im so mad I just wanna cry.
For it to be so last minute, I have every right to be as upset as I am. Now I have to scramble around at the last minute looking for something to do on Halloween night.
Dear Joei, I have to agree! Why should you be the one who is in pain & wants to cry? Let him get a taste of his own medicine....if you know why he backed out of your date at the last minute, why bother? You're hurting yourself by allowing this ASS of a guy take control of your emotions & feelings. That hurts any of us, yet it seems like you feel as though you deserve to be hurt & disappointed! Do you feel as though you're the bad person in this particular situation?? Put it to a halt & by no means cry over the ASS! If you think he's at "YOUR" place at this time; remember, we fall back an hour tonight which gives you an extra hour to have at it, you know? Get off the computer, put on a killer outfit & hit "your place" & if he is or isn't there, strut your stuff! Get a bit of self-esteem & you just might meet the person you deserve to have in your life! Go for it!
Originally Posted by Joei
But He has done this before, not answered my calls or text giving me the reason "stuff with his X"...a few days later he reassured me that he was completely over her, and that there is nothing going on.
...I dont have time for this nonsense....
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Originally Posted by Wicked Felina
First sentence screams he's married (in all senses of the word).
Second sentence = BS in capital letters.
Third sentence : There's your answer. Find someone else who cares about you.
I can see it both ways. You don't want to deal with another situation with the ex, ok. But he's also not given you any explanation as to what's going on this time. It's a little premature to just cut it off when you really don't know what's going on.
As for him not giving you an explanation yet - I agree with some other posters. It's been 2 months, and you've already broken up with him once. It doesn't sound like the most stable relationship ever. Maybe it is personal, maybe he just can't talk about it...who knows.
You seem to have made up your mind, so I think you know the answer to your question already.
Damn girl calm down its only been two months...its not like you have been dating for years. Maybe something serious did happen...perhaps he is not ready to share it with you yet. I cancelled on a dude before...he called after a few weeks to see what was wrong with me...I later inform him my father died..and I was very depressed. I was 21 at the time.
Damn girl calm down its only been two months...its not like you have been dating for years. Maybe something serious did happen...perhaps he is not ready to share it with you yet. I cancelled on a dude before...he called after a few weeks to see what was wrong with me...I later inform him my father died..and I was very depressed. I was 21 at the time.
ThankYou Darlin'...(i can't rep u) (bad is good) lol
But I tell you what. The reason he dont want to call me because he know that Im going to find out if its because of his X. And I broke up with him once due to his X (we kept running into her at the bar, and he would argue with her behind my back, drama)
So he knows if he mentions another thing about his X, Im out the door. But its too late. I dont have stupid written on my forehead. I know whats going on. Him hiding it from me makes me angrier, more suspicious, and more likly to kill his ass...I meant, kick his ass to the curb
Well for God's sake, stop acting like a 6 year old and do it already.
Sheesh.
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Let him get a taste of his own medicine....if you know why he backed out of your date at the last minute, why bother? You're hurting yourself by allowing this ASS of a guy take control of your emotions & feelings. That hurts any of us, yet it seems like you feel as though you deserve to be hurt & disappointed! Do you feel as though you're the bad person in this particular situation?? Put it to a halt 
& by no means cry 
over the ASS! If you think he's at "YOUR" place at this time; remember, we fall back an hour tonight which gives you an extra hour to have at it, you know? Get off the computer, put on a killer outfit & hit "your place" & if he is or isn't there, strut your stuff! Get a bit of self-esteem & you just might meet the person you deserve to have in your life! 
