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wow reading that just made me wonder if there's any hope for single women who don't fall in that category. Anyways, I see why there are so many cynical guys out there! lol
However, not all women are baby mommas or have nothing going for them other than trying to find some sucker who will marry her and take care of her 5 bada$$ kids :P
Seriously think there should be exclusive dating site JUST for single people without baby mommas/baby daddies issues
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Originally Posted by Ron.
You're right it does go both ways. But since I only view womens profiles, I can only speak from the POV of a heterosexual male. I'm not one to say: "Oh, they do it tooo".
The subject of this thread happened to be about women I stayed on topic by giving the reply about women. Had it been about men, my reply would have been about men.
I find it funny when all of those women with a small football team always want a family man and a committed relationship. I always think "why didn't you require that before you started dropping multiple kids or even 1 kid?"
I read one profile today and the gal(unwed mother) was looking for a man to do "family things" with. She had 3 kids.
Man, I'm sorry, any guy the get's involved with that is going to be controlled by her, that's a fact. She's going to let you know, "MY KIDS ARE TOP PRIORITY", and have no problem saying it.
Doing family things costs money, is he going to be footing the bill? Hell maybe she'll be nice and only require him to pay for half.
This is what the dating pool has dwindled down to: Average Joe's and Jane's with an inflated outlook on life that EXPECT to be given the world wrapped in roses.
Another thing many of the women have, are full body shots of themselves and they are waaay out of shape. The stomach sticks out further than her chest. These are the women that withhold sex until you commit to them. Good grief. No thanks
Seriously, A single, ambitious man is not going to deal with anything like that?
wow reading that just made me wonder if there's any hope for single women who don't fall in that category. Anyways, I see why there are so many cynical guys out there! lol
However, not all women are baby mommas or have nothing going for them other than trying to find some sucker who will marry her and take care of her 5 bada$$ kids :P
Seriously think there should be exclusive dating site JUST for single people without baby mommas/baby daddies issues
Of course there's hope but it's always he most undesirable that make themselves the most visible, that goes for anything.
Why would you want to date a " baby mama" anyway? When a women tells me she has kids usually that's the end of the conversation.
Same here unless the woman is a true gem. Even then, dating a woman with kids is not a good idea as you will never come first, her kid/kid's will which is understandable.
I was reading on another forum, that has many baby mamas, ans the majority of them said they prefer to date a man with no kids of their own.
Why is that? What is wrong with dating a guy with a child(ren) especially if you have them yourself?
Some have cited that it's due to drama with the child's mother, money having to be spent on child support which = money not being spent on her and her kid, time being spent with his kids and not her and her kid, etc.
Is this a selfish thought process? I think it is...
When I say baby mama, I mean a woman who has NEVER been married but has a kid(s). Different from single mother, which could mean a divorced or widowed woman.
It mostly comes down to money.
If a woman has a child she is raising alone, she much rather date a child-free guy because ALL HIS MONEY can be used to support her and her child.
On the dating website that I am using, the first thing I look at on the profile is the section that allows you to list if you have children or not. I'd say out of every 25 profiles that I view only 1-2 don't have children. Out of the 25 I'd say 4-5 say divorced.
Most of the women seem to be single, unwed mothers. In addition, they(unwed mothers) always seem to be the one's with the highest standards and require a "god fearing man".
I'll pass.
If they were the entire package they wouldn't have any trouble attracting men in real life would they?
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