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You created a thread back in August when you first had doubts about this new relationship and it seems that nothing much has changed. I think you already know that it's time to move on. Good luck!
Dearheart, you need to walk away. Just last month you posted about his web browser history and some concerns you had with that. I'm not sure if you confronted him on it or not, or (if you did), what BS line he fed you, but please don't subject yourself to this any more.
It doesn't matter if you came across the info by snooping or not (although I don't condone snooping), you shouldn't feel the need to snoop on your partner. Your "need to know" should be one of your first indications that this isn't the relationship for you.
Most likely, you will never trust him, whether he cheated or not. I was in a 7 year relationship in which I was a TOTAL moron and kept going back and staying with a man that CONTINUED over and over to cheat. Even after he supposedly stopped cheating (who really knows), I NEVER trusted or believed anything that he ever told me! I just couldn't do it.
The bad thing is, if you stay too long, there's a chance that it could ruin any type of decent relationship that you may have in the future, because you'll be conditioned to mistrust practically every man you come into contact with, and it could cause you to miss out on a good thing. Six months really isn't that long, let him go.
You'll thank your lucky stars that you did someday down the line. Trust me.
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