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First off I want to say I am not blaming or hating her for anything, I am purely asking you guys for advice.
I had sex with a girl. We got into an argument past couple of days. and has sent me numerous messages, on gmail, AIM, facebook admitting that she purposely put holes in the condoms we used in order to get pregnant. i also have chatlogs of her brother saying her mother is encouraging her to put me on child support. i have chatlogs of her saying she knowingly did this against my will without my knowledge. shes also threatening to call my job and cause havoc for me, i dont knwo what she meant by that. i do not know currently if she is lying or if she is pregnant for sure. is there any legal action i can take to protect myself from being mandated to pay child support if she does indeed turn out to be pregnant? Please dont turn this thread into whether its my fault, her fault or both or whether i or she should have been more responsible. i am purely seeking advice. ive never got a girl pregnant before, always used protection and this is my first time in this situation i'm really scared about whats going to happen . any response would be greatly appreciated.
Before you get all worked up, I would have DNA testing done once the baby is born, to see if it is yours. If it turns out that you are indeed the father, then you can be held legally responsible for child support.
The fact that she "tricked" you is irrelevant. If you are the father, you will be held accountable. You should realize that no method of birth control is 100% effective, except for abstinence. Good luck!
You better keep all emails, etc from her. You may need to prove your case. Seems like you have got mixed up with a stalker or at the very least someone who is unstable.
Pray she is not pregnant dude or you will need to wait until the baby is born to prove paternity unless there is a test out there to see when the woman is pregnant.
And this is why we don't have sex with anyone we don't know very well or well enough to see what kind of person they are. Psycho or whatever.
Wow......it's awful that you are put in this position. However, if she turns up pregnant, insist on a DNA test. That is the only way she can legally seek child support from you. If she calls your job harassing you, call the cops and have a restraining order put against her.
She sounds like some kind on phsyco and I would not fall into trap, call her bluff and make her prove it's yours. Until then, stay away from her and don't communicate anything to her which would suggest you are admitting to parenthood. That is....if she is even pregnant! Could be all a plot just to p*ss you off or scare you.
She has admitted to purposely putting holes in the condom
^^^ I don't understand how this can happen without you getting suspicious. You should have your own supply of condoms. Don't condoms come individually wrapped? Isn't it easier for you to tear open the package and place the condom on yourself? In the future, don't let your girlfriends put the condom on for you.
Geez... I'll watch for your appearance on the Jerry Springer Show..
She sounds like a mental case and I would probably talk to a good attorney, just in case it's needed.
I had a good friend in your situation, the next thing she did was start accusing him of abuse. He never touched her but they usually go with the woman and he had do 6 months of weekend jail time.
There is no telling what a women like this will do.
Before you get all worked up, I would have DNA testing done once the baby is born, to see if it is yours. If it turns out that you are indeed the father, then you can be held legally responsible for child support.
The fact that she "tricked" you is irrelevant. If you are the father, you will be held accountable. You should realize that no method of birth control is 100% effective, except for abstinence. Good luck!
thanks for replying in addition to wearing condoms, i guess the lesson here is for me to always use my own condom and not accept any from anyone else...
You better keep all emails, etc from her. You may need to prove your case. Seems like you have got mixed up with a stalker or at the very least someone who is unstable.
Pray she is not pregnant dude or you will need to wait until the baby is born to prove paternity unless there is a test out there to see when the woman is pregnant.
And this is why we don't have sex with anyone we don't know very well or well enough to see what kind of person they are. Psycho or whatever.
thanks janelle, well i dont like to call people psycho, who am i to judge, but since we have been at odds thats when the unusual strange behavior and personality traits started to become apparent
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. any response would be greatly appreciated.
Could be all a plot just to p*ss you off or scare you. 
She has admitted to purposely putting holes in the condom
