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When you're out at the bar and their playing music, either from a band or a DJ, you'll see a lot of girls dancing, either by themselves or with other girls. Do girls want to dance with other guys?
Sometimes you'll see some guy just walk up to a girl and start dancing, but it's hard to tell if they already know eachother or not. Do girls need to "know" some dude a little bit before they start dancing? How do you get to know a girl when there's loud blaring music? Or can you skip all that for later?
Keep in mind, I'm talking about girls who're out to have a good time and have had a drink or two, so ladies, don't respond what "daytime" you would do.
First of all, how is a girl you've never seen or talked to before dancing in a busy bar going to know if you're rich or not?
By how you dress and act. Maybe it's time to lose the brown leather jacket. And a rich guy will have an air of confidence from knowing that he's a great catch as a boyfriend or husband. How much money do you make?
Back in the day when I went out dancing, I prefered to dance alone. Almost every time some guy came up and started dancing with me, he turned out to be way too drunk. ugh.
What you are looking for?
I see lots of women dancing with men in ways I would not... to me they are easy targets for a shallow nite of sex.
Me, I love to dance and enjoy dancing with men I don't know as long as they are not touchy feely. That is a big turn off for me... a strange man who thinks he can touch here, rub there... especially if they are drunk.
If the music is too loud to talk, and you want to get to know someone, make eye contact ... and ask for a phone number. That way you have a 50/50 chance of her giving the number or not.... if you don't ask you have zero chance... Now once you have the number... make sure you ask her to dance again... If you don't she may think your a playa and brush you off when you do call...
When I was 19 I met my college boyfriend at a dance club. We locked eyes for a moment, he came over and we started dancing. And I agree with the above he wasn't too touchy and wasn't "rubbing" on me.
Of course these days at 27 I doubt I'd be that lucky.
If a group of girls are dancing together, don't go up and start dancing with them unless you can dance, and or, you have the personality to pull it off. Mostly, girls that are dancing together want to dance with each other. If I were a guy and saw one that I was interested in, I would wait until they weren't dancing and then ask her to dance, or just talk to her.
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