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Old 11-07-2009, 10:39 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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No offense to the OP but what kind of freaking game would be better than making love and spending the night with a woman. Sorry, but something is wrong there!
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Old 11-07-2009, 10:42 PM
 
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No offense to the OP but what kind of freaking game would be better than making love and spending the night with a woman. Sorry, but something is wrong there!
Well, I am a woman and if you asked me this question, I might, just might say a Red Sox/ Yankees game...at Fenway, of course....and before the Sox started to stink again...

***kidding, just kidding!***
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Old 11-07-2009, 10:44 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I wouldn't say weird but I can tell you I will NEVER involve myself with someone who does. I don't like sports, won't watch it, won't even be in the room while its on.
I prefer a man who is MORE interesting then that.
Its like a cliche' when a man is glued to the TV for their sports.
I have no interest, we would have nothing in common.
NOTHING other then maybe a third eye on their forehead makes a man LESS attractive to me then a man who is into sports.
On that alone, I would walk away from someone.
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Old 11-07-2009, 11:04 PM
 
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Fella, if you're 34 years old and havent figured out by now that people will always question why you dont find them and what they represent to be interesting, and worthy of the utmost attention, then you wont figure it out. This includes women and men. In the case of this woman, she is wondering why you dont find what she represents as a woman, interesting enough to pursue a relationship with one. As far as Im concerned you're just seeking validation for your lack of interest in a relationship. Its cool if you dont desire a relationship, that is if you're cool with not being in a relationship.

And if you want to watch tv and play video games all day, f' it..its your life, and you dont owe anyone an explanation, whether you it their definition of "interesting" or not. Ill be damned if, as a grown man, I sit around pining for someones approval of what I choose to do in my life.

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Old 11-08-2009, 12:23 AM
 
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This women at my job always hears me talking to my male co-worker about what games I will be watching tonight. She knows I'n single and felt the need to say

"So you watch sports everynight? I guess she was trying to say-"Do you have interest in women? Why can't a women just accept that I have no interest in being in a relationship and more interest in watching sports with friends? Why do so many women feel that every 34 year old man must all be the same?

I still don't get it.
So, TVSG goes into see a psychologist dressed in nothing but plastic clear wrap. The doctor takes one look at him and says, "Well I can clearly see your nuts!

Man, I think you have more issues than a National Geographic..

Still, at least you'll be able to say, "I did it my way..."
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Old 11-08-2009, 07:28 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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This women at my job always hears me talking to my male co-worker about what games I will be watching tonight. She knows I'n single and felt the need to say

"So you watch sports everynight? I guess she was trying to say-"Do you have interest in women? Why can't a women just accept that I have no interest in being in a relationship and more interest in watching sports with friends? Why do so many women feel that every 34 year old man must all be the same?

I still don't get it.

And never will. Yaaaaaaaaaaawn.
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Old 11-08-2009, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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It seems that she was showing interest in you. There's no reason to be offended. Clearly you are not interested in women. That's ok, it's your life and you have every right to spend it anyway you wish. But you might accept her show of interest for what it was, a pleasant show of interest. I hope you were polite to her.
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Old 11-08-2009, 09:18 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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TVSG

Reading is comprehension, I don't know your history, you may very
well have a condition or disability, however, anyone able to work and have
income enough to pay their own rent, bills and other necessities, most
likely isn't. Relationships aren't "all about you", I'm not talking about your love
of sports, until you can show a genuine interest in something besides
yourself it will never happen and all of the threads you post, are as everyone
who reads and posts in them already know, for nothing but shyt and giggles.
Best Wishes, virgo
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Old 11-08-2009, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Let's all pitch in money to get TVdummy a mail order bride for Xmas. I heard he deflated his blow up doll.





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Old 11-08-2009, 10:57 AM
 
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Quote TVSG: So it's weird to women if a 34 year old man chooses to be single and watch sports everynight?
This women at my job always hears me talking to my male co-worker about what games I will be watching tonight. She knows I'n single and felt the need to say

"So you watch sports everynight? I guess she was trying to say-"Do you have interest in women? Why can't a women just accept that I have no interest in being in a relationship and more interest in watching sports with friends? Why do so many women feel that every 34 year old man must all be the same?

I still don't get it.

The key words here are "Chooses" to be single....no where in your barrage of posts does it inidicate you 'choose' to be single - it seems to 'choose' you. Secondly, you only 'guess' this is what she means - you don't know for sure. And "I still don't get it" - obviously - and neither do we.
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