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How about being overly nice? Too nice for that matter? Would that be kind of a weird way of trying to hide something?
I'm thinking yes ... like, you know how when you are newly in love, you love everything? the birds are singing, the sun is shining, the sky is blue .. all that? Well, if he found a new love interest, in an odd way you may be the beneficiary of some of that renewed zest. He's going to *show* more interest in you, seem happier, chirpier .. but it's really just the result of her. Just a thought.
Check his cell phone/emails/whatever for messages. Does he have any cute cards or notes in his car/wallet?
I know a habitual cheater and he suddenly decided, despite being portly and lazy, that he was going to take up walks every night after dinner. Surprise, he didn't want any of the kids to go with him.
What has he doing? Text messaging his latest hottie/calling her up.
Unfortunately someone very close to me has been cheated on 3 times (at least) and these were some of the signs.
Speculate, speculate, speculate.
You know, if you were snooping and he hasn't cheated I'd kick your a*s to the curb. Trust is a big deal.
How about being overly nice? Too nice for that matter? Would that be kind of a weird way of trying to hide something?
Sometimes, b/c they feel very guilty about cheating....
I didn't know my husband was cheating on me, until I almost caught him....talk about trust/being naieve....and all, All the signs were there.
Constant showers, less and less interest in me...
constant phone calls and hang ups
wearing cologne, when he didn't used to (their entire hygene pattern changes)
he would leave very early for work, and those hours were never on his pay check. He told me he was working overtime...but he wasn't.
he would actually drug my drink with over the counter sleep aides so I wouldn't wake up at night...then, he'd sneak out of the house
he wouldn't come to bed with me...
and he'd tell me, I could have anything I wanted....that is also guilt
If they start buying you gifts...when they never did it before...
He'd make comments that shocked me from time to time, like "I'm no good" or "Would you get upset if you found out I was helping someone out and taking them to work in the morning". Or "I don't deserve you" or constantly saying, "your such a good woman and wife, why did you marry me".
They look for excuses to leave the house...more and more....
when they are well into cheating, they will become very irritated by you...yell at you, b/c they don't want to be there...they will blame you for the smallest things, like the way you cook, or the laundry wasn't done right...by blaming you, they feel less guilty...
Good luck and I certainly hope it isn't what your experiencing....
Sometimes, b/c they feel very guilty about cheating....
I didn't know my husband was cheating on me, until I almost caught him....talk about trust/being naieve....and all, All the signs were there.
Constant showers, less and less interest in me...
constant phone calls and hang ups
wearing cologne, when he didn't used to (their entire hygene pattern changes)
he would leave very early for work, and those hours were never on his pay check. He told me he was working overtime...but he wasn't.
he would actually drug my drink with over the counter sleep aides so I wouldn't wake up at night...then, he'd sneak out of the house
he wouldn't come to bed with me...
and he'd tell me, I could have anything I wanted....that is also guilt
If they start buying you gifts...when they never did it before...
He'd make comments that shocked me from time to time, like "I'm no good" or "Would you get upset if you found out I was helping someone out and taking them to work in the morning". Or "I don't deserve you" or constantly saying, "your such a good woman and wife, why did you marry me".
They look for excuses to leave the house...more and more....
when they are well into cheating, they will become very irritated by you...yell at you, b/c they don't want to be there...they will blame you for the smallest things, like the way you cook, or the laundry wasn't done right...by blaming you, they feel less guilty...
Good luck and I certainly hope it isn't what your experiencing....
Yes, they do change. My ex did. All of a sudden he wanted contact lens, started going to the gym and tanning. He came home late, which was out of the norm. I found the passenger seat in the car in a lowered back position.
Well, we've been divorced for quite some time now, needless to say.
HOWEVER, I do think a woman may not pick up immediatley due to denial, but yes there are signs.
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