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Conversationist, your friend is just out to score. Emotional closeness isn't the object of the game. The "getting to know you" stuff is only supposed to last long enough for him to seduce whoever, and that's it. I don't think he even sees these women as people. To him, they're just a place to put it for a few hours.
My statements here are not in judgement of how others live their life, that is not for me to say AND of course I was raised in a faith who taught me certain things about sex...while I now reject that faith maybe some of the morality teachings have hung on...
I have never even tried to seperate emotion from sex and I don't want to...for me that would be devestating...For me it would cheapen the act of making love to your partner down to what we see alley cats do, someting purely instinctive, with little or no meaning.
I have never understood how sex can be treated so casually given the consequences of being with the wrong person? Such as unplanned pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases...if your not in love with, very close to, trusting that person how do you know who they are with, what they are doing to the postman, baker and the lonely housewife at the end of the road.
putting aside the whole question of this guy being or not being uncomfortable with the women when he first gets together with him....I think it'd be really uncomfortable seeing them at the bar again!
Plus, this question seems sketchy to me..I mean, if it's the same people inthe bar every night, don't you think word would get around that this guy sleeps w/someone different every night? I don't buy the scenario--women would talk and he'd need to move on to anotehr bar.
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putting aside the whole question of this guy being or not being uncomfortable with the women when he first gets together with him....I think it'd be really uncomfortable seeing them at the bar again!
Plus, this question seems sketchy to me..I mean, if it's the same people inthe bar every night, don't you think word would get around that this guy sleeps w/someone different every night? I don't buy the scenario--women would talk and he'd need to move on to anotehr bar.
Depending on his ability AND the mind set (or lack thereof) of the women in the bar.......maybe not !
I'm not buying it from any woman who says she is cool with a hook-up. Yes, she may act cavalier or nonchalant about it on the surface, but how about when she's alone? I just don't think women are wired that way.
Men, on the other hand, well, they are hard-wired for that. So it's believable to me that a guy would want a different woman every Friday. I think they want a different one every 20 minutes or so! Thank God most of them have some self-control.
And like I always say, just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should.
Sorry to rock your world...but I am one of those women wired "that way".
Monogamy is a very very difficult "choice" for me (and I have a partner who appreciates that!)
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