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Old 11-16-2009, 01:33 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh's 'EAST SIDE'
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Inspired by a thread where a woman is going psycho on her ex-boyfriend...

Have YOU ever taken revenge on an ex? If so, how did it feel? Were you there to see your ex's reaction when the revenge happened? Did his/her facial expression make it all the sweeter, or did you suddenly realize you had done something you shouldn't have?
I've taken revenge before. It made me feel powerful, great and a little scared!

I wasn't there, the time I got revenge on my one ex. I still don't think he knows, to this day, that it was ME who did it.....lol..........

The revenge I sought out for on another EX messed with his livlihood. I wasn't there to see his facial expression but was on the phone with him once he reacted to what I TOLD him I did. He was not happy and he actually threatened me....

Both incidents happened when I was A LOT younger than I am now and now that I am older I have no desire to seek the type of revenge I sought after when I was younger. I'll let KARMA handle that. The best revenge is to keep pushing on, and never look back, while letting them see how GOOD you're living without them.
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Old 11-16-2009, 01:36 PM
 
Location: Silicon Valley
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Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner View Post
Inspired by a thread where a woman is going psycho on her ex-boyfriend...

Have YOU ever taken revenge on an ex? If so, how did it feel? Were you there to see your ex's reaction when the revenge happened? Did his/her facial expression make it all the sweeter, or did you suddenly realize you had done something you shouldn't have?
Nope! KARMA.
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Old 11-16-2009, 01:42 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I've never dated anyone who was such a nutball that I needed to get revenge on him. Besides, living well yadda yadda.
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Old 11-16-2009, 01:43 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Nope. Not my style. Besides, none of my ex's ever did anything to warrant that kind of anger.
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Old 11-16-2009, 01:52 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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I was about 22 when I was just about done with my then boyfriend. He was very possessive and untrusting, accused me of cheating all the time and was just crappy with me in general. It was wearing on me already. I then found out, in great detail, that he cheated on me several times with several women, including a woman who lived in my apartment complex and the woman who lived next door to my mother.

My ex sent me tickets to meet him in Cancun about two months before this. No pressure, just in the hopes that I would go. I found out about the cheating about a week before the trip was to take place and gave it some thought; I decided to go and try to work it out with my ex. But I told the cheater I was going to visit family. I took lots of pictures and laid them out on my coffee table when I got back home. The cheater came over as soon as I got back, as if all was fine, no clue that I knew what he had done. I let him in and excused myself to the restroom. Within seconds, I heard the front door slam.



Was it vengeful? Sherrrr. He deserved it and I was young. Would I do it again? Nah. I find the less effort and attention you put into making someone feel the loss, the more loss they feel.
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Old 11-16-2009, 02:37 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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The only ex who ever hurt me was a dirtbag who slept with a girl I knew, one he constantly put down until I found out he was cheating on me with her. I broke up with him, hurt but not vengeful.

I learned later that she dropped out of school to have his baby. Later than that, I heard he was in jail. Last year, she found me on Facebook (we weren't very close but had many mutual friends), and we started talking. They're married and she has two children of his. He also has two children with two other women. He's cheated on all of them with one another. It's seriously like something off Jerry Springer. And part of me just wants to ask her if she was AT ALL surprised about how things turned out, and what in the blue blazes all those women see in that scumbag.
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Old 11-19-2009, 07:36 PM
 
Location: middle of everywhere
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I got a nice chunk of his paycheck. Unfortunately I wasn't there to see his face when he saw how much they collected from him. I really wish I was! LOL

I've been tempted to send him a cute postcard from a future vacation thanking him for funding it, but I think that's pushing it, no?

*giggling*
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Old 11-19-2009, 08:56 PM
 
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A long healthy life is the best revenge.

Oh and revenge is a dish best served cold.
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Old 11-19-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I've taken revenge before. It made me feel powerful, great and a little scared!

I wasn't there, the time I got revenge on my one ex. I still don't think he knows, to this day, that it was ME who did it.....lol..........

The revenge I sought out for on another EX messed with his livlihood. I wasn't there to see his facial expression but was on the phone with him once he reacted to what I TOLD him I did. He was not happy and he actually threatened me....

Both incidents happened when I was A LOT younger than I am now and now that I am older I have no desire to seek the type of revenge I sought after when I was younger. I'll let KARMA handle that. The best revenge is to keep pushing on, and never look back, while letting them see how GOOD you're living without them.
Here here!!!!!
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