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Aargh okay so I met this guy, He's great. Just amazing. Rare. He's just what I wanted. We text and talk a lot. I really thought he likes me. Then one day he told me he actually have a girlfriend. They've been together for a few years now. sigh. I was so disappointed when i found that out. but we're still really good friends. Amazing how close we've gotten within just one month. Just one month! If you see us together and what we talk about, you'd think we've known each other for years. We go hang out just the two of us, chat/text/talk until late at night. I'm not sure if his girlfriend actually knows. I know he told his girlfriend about me, his new friend, but I'm not sure if she knows everything. Or maybe she does.
Im really confused. I know I probably shouldnt let my feelings grow but I couldnt help it. When I try not to have any contact with him, he'll send me a text or call me and I'll be all soft again.
Just sleep with him already.. everyone knows sex is always better with someone who's already taken. Maybe you could even invite his girlfriend in on things, just for kicks and giggles.
Or maybe just a lot of kicks, with no giggles. On second thought, you might want to wear some padding before you invite her though, just as a precaution.
Seriously now, leave them alone and go find a man who's not taken. No sense in beating yourself up over some dude that already has a chick - right?
My advice is going to be a little unconventional and probably even a little controversial: unless and until he and his GF are married and/or he tells you to bug off, I see nothing wrong with staying in his orbit. Hang around for a while and see what happens. Stay in touch with him, but keep it "friend-appropriate." Maybe some day he and his girlfriend will have a tiff, maybe they'll split. And if he and his GF don't make it, well by golly, you're right there to give him a shoulder to cry on. Or who knows, maybe you'll start to see some of his faults and you may come to realize that he's not the guy you think he is.
All the same, in the meantime don't hold out hope to such an extent that you close off other opportunities. Keep your eyes and options open.
My advice is going to be a little unconventional and probably even a little controversial: unless and until he and his GF are married and/or he tells you to bug off, I see nothing wrong with staying in his orbit. Hang around for a while and see what happens. Stay in touch with him, but keep it "friend-appropriate." Maybe some day he and his girlfriend will have a tiff, maybe they'll split. And if he and his GF don't make it, well by golly, you're right there to give him a shoulder to cry on. Or who knows, maybe you'll start to see some of his faults and you may come to realize that he's not the guy you think he is.
All the same, in the meantime don't hold out hope to such an extent that you close off other opportunities. Keep your eyes and options open.
So, what happens if you get him? After a while he will start to chat, text, and talk late into the night with yet another girl. Is that what you want? If yes, then sure, go ahead and steal him, take his girlfriend's place, she'll probably be happier without him anyway.
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