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Dude, trust me: as a longtime bar patron and drinker and musician who has played in countless honky tonks--as well as fine lounges--I can tell you that that sort of thing is going to happen wherever pretty girls and alcohol are together in the same place. And because some guys get crude and rude when they drink, they're not always gonna respect the fact that a pretty women is spoken for. The right thing to do in your situation is pretty much what you did: Tell the guy to back off, but do it politely, or maybe in a kind of smartass way: "Yeah pal, I remember my first beer too; what'sa matter: you're so blitzed you can't tell the lady's with me?"
Fighting is never worth it, because jail sucks and there's a good chance that's where you're gonna end up if you get in a bar brawl. Just take solace in the fact that you're gonna go home with the lady while numbnuts is gonna go home and pull his pud. (A variance of this fact, by the way, could also be used in your comment to the dude when you return from the head and see him hitting on your squeeze!)
Peace.
Dude, trust me: as a longtime bar patron and drinker and musician who has played in countless honky tonks--as well as fine lounges--I can tell you that that sort of thing is going to happen wherever pretty girls and alcohol are together in the same place. And because some guys get crude and rude when they drink, they're not always gonna respect the fact that a pretty women is spoken for. The right thing to do in your situation is pretty much what you did: Tell the guy to back off, but do it politely, or maybe in a kind of smartass way: "Yeah pal, I remember my first beer too; what'sa matter: you're so blitzed you can't tell the lady's with me?"
Fighting is never worth it, because jail sucks and there's a good chance that's where you're gonna end up if you get in a bar brawl. Just take solace in the fact that you're gonna go home with the lady while numbnuts is gonna go home and pull his pud. (A variance of this fact, by the way, could also be used in your comment to the dude when you return from the head and see him hitting on your squeeze!)
Peace.
You all are leaving out one potential scenerio. Sure it is great to defuse and all that. Great to tell the guy back off or even invite them to your table.
What you all are forgetting is sometimes besides looking to score or flirt with the woman the guy or (guys) know damn well she is with someone and would be just as happy to start some s*** with the guy as flirt with the girl.
Seen it before, f***ers who think Saturday night is alright for fighting or getting laid either way. So you might say back off or be cool and then the guy or guys give you what are you gonna do about it? treatment. You may worry about going to jail but they don't give a ****.
You all are leaving out one potential scenerio. Sure it is great to defuse and all that. Great to tell the guy back off or even invite them to your table.
What you all are forgetting is sometimes besides looking to score or flirt with the woman the guy or (guys) know damn well she is with someone and would be just as happy to start some s*** with the guy as flirt with the girl.
Seen it before, f***ers who think Saturday night is alright for fighting or getting laid either way. So you might say back off or be cool and then the guy or guys give you what are you gonna do about it? treatment. You may worry about going to jail but they don't give a ****.
I've even seen girls instigate it too.
That's why you don't even confront the other guy. Who cares if some guy flirted with her? I don't understand why a few guys here think that's a reason to get in some guy's face. She's a girlfriend, not a possession. A five-year-old hits and yells, "MINE!" not a grown man.
If the other guy is being obnoxious or threatening or grabby, then maybe step it up, depending on the circumstance. But opportunistic flirting is not that big a deal.
I remember a blonde I dated years ago. She had medium length hair, was a little plump, but to me, good looking! We went to a local nightclub on a Saturday night and I noticed a couple of guys glancing at her. I got a little pi**ed inside my mind, but didn't say a word. Think that was the first time I'd ever had any guy look at a lady that I was with! I didn't date ugly ladies, just not "Foxes" that other guys would "drowl" over. I couldn't afford the "Foxes" anyway!
That's why you don't even confront the other guy. Who cares if some guy flirted with her? I don't understand why a few guys here think that's a reason to get in some guy's face. She's a girlfriend, not a possession. A five-year-old hits and yells, "MINE!" not a grown man.
If the other guy is being obnoxious or threatening or grabby, then maybe step it up, depending on the circumstance. But opportunistic flirting is not that big a deal.
Ugh...
yeah most of time probably a guy who is just being ass trying to be Romeo and will not push the envelope too uch however sometimes you get this scenerio....
julia and her guy are sitting at the bar, they are obviously together but a guy comes up between julia and her guy's stools, the guy has his back to julia's guy while leaning on the bar and and while stroking her across her shoulder or arm (or worse) says to her "damn baby you are so fine have a drink with me yada yada yada".
The guy knows damn well that julia's guy is there, think "hey bud she is with me" is gonna get him to leave? No the next thing out of the guys mouth is "**** off I'm talking to her".
Sure a extreme situation, but I have seen it happen and it happened to me once which goes back to the "would you fight" thread where I got my ass pounded to the floor by him in a split second (he was a gorilla) but it had to happen not for her sake but for mine. I was able to look at myself in the mirror the next day at least with some sense of dignity even though I got whooped.
yeah most of time probably a guy who is just being ass trying to be Romeo and will not push the envelope too uch however sometimes you get this scenerio....
julia and her guy are sitting at the bar, they are obviously together but a guy comes up between julia and her guy's stools, the guy has his back to julia's guy while leaning on the bar and and while stroking her across her shoulder or arm (or worse) says to her "damn baby you are so fine have a drink with me yada yada yada".
The guy knows damn well that julia's guy is there, think "hey bud she is with me" is gonna get him to leave? No the next thing out of the guys mouth is "**** off I'm talking to her".
Sure a extreme situation, but I have seen it happen and it happened to me once which goes back to the "would you fight" thread where I got my ass pounded to the floor by him in a split second (he was a gorilla) but it had to happen not for her sake but for mine. I was able to look at myself in the mirror the next day at least with some sense of dignity even though I got whooped.
Julia and her guy are sitting at the bar, obviously together. Another guy says, "Damn, baby, you are so fine. Have a drink with me." Julia smiles and says, "No, thank you, I'm with my husband." The other guy persists. Julia says no again, but her eyes are not smiling. He tries one more time. Julia stands up and the guy finds his testicles squeezed very very tightly in her hand.
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