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Old 03-29-2014, 07:14 PM
 
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Originally Posted by usamathman View Post
Unless the other person has just as much or more than you.
Divorce statistics in any of the 50 states bears the facts.

The man pays in more ways than one.

Just don't bother.

The only winning move is not to play.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:16 PM
 
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Divorce statistics in any of the 50 states bears the facts.

The man pays in more ways than one.

Just don't bother.

The only winning move is not to play.
What are the alternatives.....

-PORN
-CASUAL DATING
-FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

Not so attractive when you are 40 and all alone.

I will take my chances with marriage.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:20 PM
 
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What are the alternatives.....

-PORN
-CASUAL DATING
-FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS

Not so attractive when you are 40 and all alone.

I will take my chances with marriage.
Go overseas.

You forgot plate spinning by the way.

You are going to die alone anyways.
Visit any nursing home to see the aforementioned.

The ... "all alone" phrase is hollow.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:20 PM
 
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I could only imagine 3 different men coming and going picking up their children for visitation.
In everyone I know with children from multiple partners, this is rarely an issue.


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In reality the women I have met that fit this background have not seen the biological fathers of their children for years.
This is extremely common amongst single moms.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:27 PM
 
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Go overseas.

You forgot plate spinning by the way.

You are going to die alone anyways.
Visit any nursing home to see the aforementioned.

The ... "all alone" phrase is hollow.
Nah.. All alone...is just that....all alone.

If that truly is the case.....then I want to make the next 30 years to be as memorable as possible by spending them with someone that I truly love.

To each his/her own.
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Old 03-29-2014, 07:31 PM
 
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Nah.. All alone...is just that....all alone.

If that truly is the case.....then I want to make the next 30 years to be as memorable as possible by spending them with someone that I truly love.

To each his/her own.
You will discover that love is merely a construct.
Feel free to mark my words.
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Old 03-31-2014, 12:01 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the Midwest
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Originally Posted by Uncle_RedPill View Post
Divorce statistics in any of the 50 states bears the facts.

The man pays in more ways than one.

Just don't bother.

The only winning move is not to play.


Why do you have these views on marriage? Have you married before and later divorced? I myself never married and I don't have any kids. Honestly, I was always afraid of commitment and the compromise that marriage entails.
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Old 03-31-2014, 12:20 PM
 
Location: USA
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In everyone I know with children from multiple partners, this is rarely an issue.




This is extremely common amongst single moms.
Yep, a lot of children abandoned, or effectively abandoned, by their fathers. But, as shown in studies no dad, two women, an uncle, or a grandfather are just as good as having a dad around
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Old 03-31-2014, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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All 3 kids have different fathers by the way. Does she have a good chance or will it be hard for her?
She has a hell of a lot lesser chance than someone who does not have kids. Next question.
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