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It's just that I've been thinking about all the girls I've known and dated over the years. The plain and average looking girls were always intelligent, warm, kind, but unfortunately, I just didn't feel any physical attraction to them.
Now I was blown away by the totally hot girls, but a lot of them had total ego and superiority complexes. Not to mention a lot of them become really cold and catty when you rub them the wrong way; that and they're really high maintenance.
But there was this one girl I dated for a couple of months who was drop dead, supermodel-gorgeous; tall, tan, long platinum blond hair, great body; imagine Lady Gaga in her Poker Face video (but not in all the other ones because she just looks like a freak in the others)
However, she didn't have any of the ego, any of the narcissism, she never became cold or prissy (she was warm to everyone) and she was always really easy to talk to.
Then I saw her high school photos (she invited me to her house and I sneaked a look into her photo album and year book while she was away) she was a little bit chunky and frumpy.
She flipped out when she saw me looking, but then explained her life story afterwards. That she was a pretty average looking girl in high school, didn't have a boyfriend, the pretty, popular girls would sometimes make fun of her. So she decided to get in shape, dress well, do her hair and make up more often and whatnot once she got into college.
So I thought to myself "wow, I guess that why she doesn't have the ego."
I've never met a girl like that before or since. Where do you find one? A girl who's beautiful but doesn't have the ego of most beautiful girls? Where do you find an ugly duckling who bloomed late in life?
No offense but you seem to be fixated on dating only REALLY hot women. This is likely going to set you up for a whole lot of issues down the road but maybe you will mature out of this.
If she's looking like Lady Gaga, cmon you need to raise your standards. This will set you up for all kind of problems later in life. You'll marry someone all fugly, *shivers* I don't even want to think about it...
If she's looking like Lady Gaga, cmon you need to raise your standards.
That's why I said Lady Gaga in Poker Face. I know she looks hideous in real life (as do most celebs). That's the only video in which she's pretty.
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