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Something like this happened to me once. I went out on a date and needed to #2. So after it was done I realized I was out of toilet paper and there was only one toilet. I waited for someone to come in and it never happened. So after almost 25 minutes (it was really messy and I would have needed a full roll of tissue) I had to use my socks to wipe my butt. Then my hands got all smelly and there was no soap in the sink. It was terrible and the chick got so pissed off that she left by herself.
Did you have a clear view to the restroom? Did you actually see him go in and come out? Perhaps he snuck out for any number of reasons...make a phone call/text, get to an ATM, talk to someone else he either knew or wanted to know? Perhaps he did have some bowel or gas issues going on, it's not completely out of the question and it's something that not everyone feels comfortable sharing. I'd say it's tough to work it back into the conversation after that day has come and gone. For now I'd let it go, but any future red flags need to be discussed and you need a reasonable explanation that you can live with. Making a move of that magnitude requires a great deal of trust and if you have any reservations about moving down there to be closer to him now is the time to iron out all the doubts and observe his behavior next time you are together. Bottom line, trust your instincts.
My guess would be that he was having bowel issues like a couple of people have already said. I don't care how well you know someone - they're not going to announce it in the middle of a bar. I mean, have you regularly shared stories in the past about your...regularity? How did you expect he would react? Poor guy is probably embarrassed.
Maybe he ran out of toilet paper.
Maybe the toilet got plugged up and he didn't want it to overflow.
Maybe he was talking on the phone.
Maybe he was vomiting.
Did you go and check on him at all to be sure he was okay?
He waited 6-7 months for you to go down there. You waited 30-35 minutes for him to come out of the bathroom.
I think you're making a mountain out of a molehill.
agreed. and if it's bothering you that much, just ask him/tell him
I couldn't hold it in any longer I sent him a very well written note very well written I didn't get nasty at all took him about a day to read it but when he did he sent me a text and it read: "wow, I just read your message we need to talk. I'll call u when I get off of work, love you." I in turn replied and said okay, love u too. Well later on that evening I got another text message saying: "I just gott of of work and I'm really tired I'll call u on my lunch break tomorrow"
Okay, tomorrow came and went to date 16 days later and nothing so evidently our friendship isn't important enough to hang onto or my feelings weren't important enough to address. Honestly at this point I don't really care. Just wanted to come back to give you an update. Thanx everybody for your input the postive & the negative I guess.
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Jesus. TMI for cripe's sake. 
soooooo
