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Old 06-28-2007, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Newtown Connecticut
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What would you do if you caught your partner in the act.....It happened to me. Tell me what you would do.....Then I will tell you what I did.
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:45 AM
 
Location: Toledo
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Oh boy! That's never happened to me although I've been played before. I'm sorry that that happened to you. I would probably slam the door to let them know I saw them and then leave. It would be over at that point. No contact at all. Nothing!
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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I'm sorry for anyone who goes through this. I remember reading other posts you wrote and thinking you were a good person. Congratulations on not becoming one of those bitter people consumed by a general hatred of the opposite sex.

I believe I would tell my SO it's over and time to pack up your stuff and leave. I'll help.

Ever heard about those sort of Biblical justice pre-nups? I would be wishing I had one of those. They say the one who cheats walks away with nothing!
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Charlotte, NC
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I would probably freak out for a second, take my camera out of my purse, take pictures, and then post them on the Internet :-).
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Old 06-28-2007, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Uh... join them?
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Old 06-28-2007, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Chattanooga
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it happened to my brother...
it's not a laughing matter
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Old 06-28-2007, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Kentucky Bluegrass
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What would you do if you caught your partner in the act.....It happened to me. Tell me what you would do.....Then I will tell you what I did.

I'd leave, quickly and quietly
it would be devestating..and I to am sorry you experienced this...
being cheated on has to be the most painful hurt, besides loosing a child.
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Old 06-28-2007, 10:02 AM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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my serious answer is: never happened to me, but if it did I'd probably have a heart attack. That would really suck
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Old 06-28-2007, 10:43 AM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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Not sure... but a "crime of passion" come to mind.

But SERIOUSLY..why would a person do it in the bed they share with someone else.

HAVE SOME CLASS!!!! REALLY!!! To be blunt, I would be FURIOUS.

IMO, anyone that doesn't commit a felony in this case, has a serious amount of self control.
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Old 06-28-2007, 10:57 AM
 
Location: Lots of sun and palm trees with occasional hurricane :)
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How long will we have to wait spiritwalker?

I have played this scenario in my mind. You never know what can happen so I've thought about it, just like I've thought what I would do if I found a thief in the house.

I would just very calmly tell them to get the blank, blank, blank (4 letter word) out of my house NOW! I would take all of my immediate EX's things (without going through too much effort) and throw them outside. He can pick up whatever he wants to if he happens to come by before the garbage pick up truck does, and then he better not show his sorry self around me ever again.

The thief.....well I'd go running out of the house screaming to the top of my lungs and leave him with the big dog. :-))
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