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Old 11-29-2009, 12:37 PM
 
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Women in western society have been unfortunately brainwashed into thinking that they are like men. Nature intended for their to be balance between men and women.

Women think that being equal to men means being competitive to men and that's what happens in relationships and marriages with western women.

Women don't respect men that they can control and rule.

There's a difference between a man being the head or being a dictator. Women cannot discern the difference for some reason.

Women are not only supposed to submit themselves to their men but also LISTEN and RESPECT their women which is something WESTERN women do not do.

Men, despite the warnings continue to fall victim.

Feminity should submit itself to masculinity.

BIGGER does not equal SMARTER, Jack.
And a submissive partner cheats their spouse by withholding their own knowledge, experience and intuition.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:46 PM
 
Location: San Diego North County
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Women in western society have been unfortunately brainwashed into thinking that they are like men. Nature intended for their to be balance between men and women.

Women think that being equal to men means being competitive to men and that's what happens in relationships and marriages with western women.

Women don't respect men that they can control and rule.

There's a difference between a man being the head or being a dictator. Women cannot discern the difference for some reason.

Women are not only supposed to submit themselves to their men but also LISTEN and RESPECT their women which is something WESTERN women do not do.

Men, despite the warnings continue to fall victim.

Feminity should submit itself to masculinity.
This sort of misogynistic, patriarchal, Eurocentric, and hegemonistic attitude puts gender equality back about 200 years, and in fact, is the cornerstone of
discrimination against women and girls - including gender-based violence, economic discrimination, reproductive health inequities, and harmful traditional practices.

Please explain the reasoning behind your post, more specifically, the part I bolded.

Inquiring women want to know.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:46 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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For man it's ok to be SUBMISSIVE during roleplay if he is single but not in a relationship
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:47 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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BIGGER does not equal SMARTER, Jack.
And a submissive partner cheats their spouse by withholding their own knowledge, experience and intuition.
We are not talking about education or IQ, we are talking about natural male and female roles that have been distorted and corrupted through the government controlled media.

It's quite simple.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:51 PM
 
Location: mass
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hm. funny, but it seems to me there are a lot more men that are submissive to their wives, and no one seems to find that offensive, and fewer women that are submissive to their husband, and when they are it causes an uproar.

We need spouses working together, each at what they are good at, for couples to succeed. There is no point in either submitting to to the other when the other has no idea what they are talking about or the first would have come to a more intelligent conclusion.

How about submitting to common sense, experience, etc. on a case by case basis.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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This sort of misogynistic, patriarchal, Eurocentric, and hegemonistic attitude puts gender equality back about 200 years, and in fact, is the cornerstone of
discrimination against women and girls - including gender-based violence, economic discrimination, reproductive health inequities, and harmful traditional practices.

Please explain the reasoning behind your post, more specifically, the part I bolded.

Inquiring women want to know.

A man leading a household has nothing to do with discrimination. As long as he is fair and loving.

Actually no, there have been defined male and female roles outside of western society for thousands of years in very functional societies.

Women have been taught in western society that they are supposed to buck up to a man, not listen to him, prove that she is his equal by trying to take charge and such. Such behavior divides families, start arguments and has broken up the family unit since the 1960s.

Men are not left off the hook, men are supposed to love their women and their women are supposed to respect them and listen to them.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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hm. funny, but it seems to me there are a lot more men that are submissive to their wives, and no one seems to find that offensive, and fewer women that are submissive to their husband, and when they are it causes an uproar.

We need spouses working together, each at what they are good at, for couples to succeed. There is no point in either submitting to to the other when the other has no idea what they are talking about or the first would have come to a more intelligent conclusion.

How about submitting to common sense, experience, etc. on a case by case basis.
Exactly. Men can never be victims in this society.

People feel that women should be given leeway with men because of these so called wrongs that men have put on women, little do they realize that men have been the disposable sex that have actually served and slaved for women and children for thousands of years.

We live in an age in which women actually report more physical abuse of their male partners than the other way around, are more likely to use a weopon in an argument/confrontation. Males are always told that hey sexual abuse women but little is said about sexual abused males who are more likely to be abused by a female in the family.

We want equality? How about fighting for men's rights.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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For man it's ok to be SUBMISSIVE during roleplay if he is single but not in a relationship
If you're talking in a sexual sense, it's okay for both partners to be submissive SOME of the time--as far as I'm concerned anyway.

If others want to be dominant all the time, or submissive all the time, that would be between them and their partner.
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Old 11-29-2009, 12:59 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Exactly. Men can never be victims in this society.

People feel that women should be given leeway with men because of these so called wrongs that men have put on women, little do they realize that men have been the disposable sex that have actually served and slaved for women and children for thousands of years.

We live in an age in which women actually report more physical abuse of their male partners than the other way around, are more likely to use a weopon in an argument/confrontation. Males are always told that hey sexual abuse women but little is said about sexual abused males who are more likely to be abused by a female in the family.

We want equality? How about fighting for men's rights.

Please tell me how this is so? I mean, I can't picture a woman holding a man down, making him get it "up" and then having her way with him. So please, enlighten us?
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Old 11-29-2009, 01:02 PM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Please tell me how this is so? I mean, I can't picture a woman holding a man down, making him get it "up" and then having her way with him. So please, enlighten us?
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