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You consider lying to an SO to be a far less serious matter than do I. I am blissfully ignorant of its aftermath. Why would he lie about something that he knows must be discovered? Such a move indicates he is either an idiot or that he is ephemeral.
You consider lying to an SO to be a far less serious matter than do I. I am blissfully ignorant of its aftermath. Why would he lie about something that he knows must be discovered? Such a move indicates he is either an idiot or that he is ephemeral.
Don't bother to throw up the smoke screen dude, your comment to OP
was ignorant, you know what I'm referring to, reading is comprehension.
I don't think the OP asked about what you thought of her hip/waist ratio? Next you'll be telling her that long hair is a sign of good health and fertility? Neither are relevant to the original post. LOL.
Ehh it was only a couple months. I would let this one slide but keep your eye open. Think about turning 39 yourself and then you actually get that "over the hill" label....I think I would probably lie a bit too. Thats just a ewwy label to have on yourself. He probably prizes his youth and that is why he is dating a 28 year old.
Well... I had been seeing this guy for a couple of months now, maybe a bit less... idk.
He said he was 35, I believed him... and turns out he is 39!!! he'll be 40 in March!!! ugh... why lie? specially on something so trivial, something that will sooner or later be discovered? I don't think I mind it much, I am almost 28; a 12 year difference is not that bad...
Now I am dissapointed, and a bit upset... don't know what to do, he is nice, and I enjoy his company, but he lied!!! ugh...
what do you all think? should I cut him a break? should I dump him for being a liar?
People lie all the time to get what they want.Guys in particular lie by their actions. . They take bathes-they comb their hair, they wear uncomfortable clothes, and work at jobs they hate, just to get in a positon to get close to some action. It's all a Lie. ---guys are more like "The Dude" than most people like to admit. "mind if I do a j" type of thing.
I don't think the OP asked about what you thought of her hip/waist ratio? Next you'll be telling her that long hair is a sign of good health and fertility? Neither are relevant to the original post. LOL.
Hi sophialee,
I have been on both sides of the scale. I know which side works best. Put yourself in the best position to find the best mate. If she is considering this guy, then her pool is too small. No woman with game would put up with it. I don't flinch when I know what her life can be for the next 40 years. So it is completely relevant. Get out of the cloudy fish bowl.
I have been on both sides of the scale. I know which side works best. Put yourself in the best position to find the best mate. If she is considering this guy, then her pool is too small. No woman with game would put up with it. I don't flinch when I know what her life can be for the next 40 years. So it is completely relevant. Get out of the cloudy fish bowl.
How is that relevant to the OP's original question about a guy who lied about his age? That's all she asked. She didn't ask for anyone's opinion on weight, hip-to-waist ratio or how she can increase her dating pool.
Don't bother to throw up the smoke screen dude, your comment to OP
was ignorant, you know what I'm referring to, reading is comprehension.
Hi virgode,
I do no make pretty lies on a board asking for real advice. If you think appearance has nothing to do with the critical early stages of a relationship, then tell those pretty lies and attend the funeral which will be the next event. She has every asset available to her to dump 10 men better than this.
How is that relevant to the OP's original question about a guy who lied about his age? That's all she asked. She didn't ask for anyone's opinion on weight, hip-to-waist ratio or how she can increase her dating pool.
It is because a woman with confidence and options dump men like this. It means she does not think she can find a 35 year old who tells the truth right off the bat. I took the wrapper off and read the whole book. I am not a fortune cookie.
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why lie? specially on something so trivial, something that will sooner or later be discovered? I don't think I mind it much, I am almost 28; a 12 year difference is not that bad...
