Hard to understand people! (long distance, girls, call, mature)
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maybe I'm just getting old but WTF is up with people calling each other in the middle of the night? If ANYONE other than my kids called me at that hour they'd get an earfull LOL Seriously!
ok, so when you missed her call, you were asleep.
fair enough.
why did you text her, and not call her back ?
i remember the old days when a phone's primary purpose was to talk. like REALLY talk, you know, with your mouth.
i find it so much easier than texting, it's amazing how much information you can impart in a five minute conversation, rather than 5 minutes of texting !!
you do know that if a text message fails on the first attempt, for any reason, it goes into a "circle of re-tries".
it will be retried after a few seconds, then minutes, which will increase.
perhaps she has not received your message ?
to summise,
if in doubt, call.
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Originally Posted by Repubocrat
I asked her to call me later, she called me at 12:30 am and I was sleeping. I sent her a text msg at 12:45 saying that I was up and that she could call me back if she wanted.
12.30 is a tad late and selfish to be calling, texting anyone unless it's life or death..she's saying you looked better in person...shallow obsevation... not worth persuing I think. If she never calls back then you'll know for sure. Just because a person is in their 30's means nothing...why are you worrying about her. If you even think she's playing games, it must be you're getting the message, right ? So you don't need us to figure it out.
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I wouldn't read anything into it so quickly. Not everyone can answer the phone everytime it rings. I know I can't--even if I'm carrying it. You can return my call 5 minutes after I leave a message and I may not be able to pick up. I move right along to other things and I'll get back to you when I can. It's not revenge b'c you didn't answer my call, I'm not punishing you, I'm just doing stuff. LOL
I think I finally figured this BS out. She must have thought I was ignoring her when she called me at 12:30 am on Sat and I did not answer, so she probably thinks that she is punishing me by not returning my text message. Also, I was in a relationship for 6 years with an older woman and I am not used to these immature games girls play
I read on this website called "PLAYERS GUIDE" that I should NOT attempt to call her back because if she is playing some BS game, it will be a sure way to lose her. I find all this so incredibly LAME and STUPID.
I think people who need to play these games have some deep insecurities and low self esteem. I am glad I was able to see through her crap after meeting her only once, I am not calling this chick back.
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