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Old 12-09-2009, 11:24 PM
 
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Old 12-10-2009, 12:01 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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So what's the difference in these relationships.

Rhiana's boyfriend apparently beat her up. Yeah...while he was driving. While she continued to verbally abuse him to no end WHILE he was driving. Apparently cause he got a text message from another woman.

Then there is Tiger. I don't know what's going on with that whole situation. I just know he had a fat lip and a broken window by his wife from a golf club. Then of course a busted up car.

So what is going on here. Who is right and wrong in a relationship that goes sour?

Is it alright to take a dispute to a violent level or can we walk away from a situation like an adult and just end it never looking back?
Look at it this way, would you rather walk away like an adult, or have a restraining order to end it, either way you look at it , theres no contact.

Maybe she did get out of hand yelling, he handled the situation like a true abuser.

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There was no apparently, did you see the photos of her face?

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Old 12-10-2009, 09:33 AM
 
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Look at it this way, would you rather walk away like an adult, or have a restraining order to end it, either way you look at it , theres no contact.

Maybe she did get out of hand yelling, he handled the situation like a true abuser.

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There was no apparently, did you see the photos of her face?

I don't know.

I didn't like what I saw in her interview. She did admits to "not letting it go." I think she was enjoying the "victim" role with her words. Getting him in trouble so to speak.

I have been in two serious situations EXACTLY like the one that was described. Abuse in the car where the woman wouldn't know when to say when.

On and on and on...to where there were warnings. You know, like water about ready to boil over. I think if you poke the stick at the dog a few too many times you WILL get bit. That's just the way it is.

I had to pull off the side of the road and put a finger right to the end of her nose and threaten that if she ever...I mean EVER spoke to me like that again it would be OVER. She stopped. She then was all lovey dovey. Yeah, she was a mental case.

Then in my marriage the lady decides she is going to stand up to me in the car too. I never laid a hand on her but I will tell you my heart almost popped out of my chest from the extreme anger from the rotten words that came out of that girl's mouth. I was packing my bags when I got home. I had not left yet but I still have a suit case in my closet.
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Old 12-10-2009, 09:54 AM
 
Location: SE Florida
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This situation is very simple and certainly not unique or new. It goes back to the dawn of man........"if your guy is not getting it from you, he is getting it from someone else." PERIOD!
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