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And up my chances of a three-way with one of her friends...sure why not?! j/k
Honestly, if we loved and respected one another enough, yes. But if she's marrying me, at that point I suspect she has come to terms with her sexuality and desires and accepted me as her spouse as part of a monogomous relationship. A bi-sexual woman is no more or less susceptible to temptation, infidelity, or promiscuity than a straight one.
Not full on bi, but degrees. I wish I had the url to the story. GAH! It came out within the past 6 months if anyone wants to dig it up. I can't find it atm.
Actually, this has been around a long time. Alfred Kinsey put forth the Kinsey Scale of sexuality in the 1950's
why do you think so many strippers and porn stars are bisexual? I have never met any bisexual woman who was normal and emotionally stable.
That that is simply a reflection of the women in your life, the women you know and hang out with. If you hang out with strippers and porn stars and women who are not emotionally stable, then that is a reflection on the kind of people you choose to spend your time with.
The bisexual women i know are doctors, housewives, engineers, nurses, teachers, lifeguards, carpenters, and surgeons. Those are just a few. They are plain old regular people, married, single, raising kids, grandmas, church goers.
The one bisexual woman i knew who worked as a stripper did it for a few years to earn money and then put herself through med school. Where she met her wife. Both she and her wife (who is also bisexual) are medical doctors. One is a pediatrician, the other is a General Practitioner.
no, women who date women do not "have a disdain" for males in general
i am a woman. i was in a straight marriage for 14 years. I identified as a gay woman for 10 years. I identify now as a bisexual woman for 6+ years. all of that time, all of my life, i have had healthy positive relationships with men. i have 3 sons, whom i adore.
some gay women don't like men, but in no greater numbers than the straight women who don't like men. Same for men....there a lot of misogynists out there, in both the straight and gay communities. The two are not related. That is a stereoptype.
it would be like me asking you, "so you sleep with women, does that mean you hate men?" see how ridiculous that is?
Thanks for posting that! Finally someone who makes sense!
plenty of gay people are in committed long term relationships.
plenty of bixexual people are in committed long term relationships.
one has nothing to do with the other
whether you sleep with women or with men, has nothing whatsoever to do with whether you are promiscuous or monogamous or committed relationship material.
more ignorance....think about the heterosexuals you know....some are promiscuous, some are monogamous. Same holds true for gays, same holds true for bisexuals.
Agreed. One of my best friends is bisexual. She has been in a committed marriage to a guy for 3 years and they have a one year old baby. They watch a lot of lesbian porn and have a great relationship!
Well, I think you'd have to be pretty darned secure in your relationship to be involved with someone who is bi.
After all, if you were married, would you have a problem with your wife going out with a guy for drinks? Or going to the beach together? Or if you were a woman, would you have an issue with your husband doing the same with a woman? Yet, if one is ambivalent about one's sexual preferences, then I suppose anyone--male or female--that your SO has chemistry with could potentially be trouble--no matter loyal they claim to be.
A colleague of mine's wife went through that. She had a best friend with whom she spent all her free time. Then one day, she strolls in and announces that she was bi, and she was going on vacation with her friend to see how it worked. Chet had serious trust issues with Amy from that day forward. They were divorced two years later. A year after that, she begged him to take her back. The way he saw it, it wasn't necessarily that she was bi, but that she cheated on him.
Well, I think you'd have to be pretty darned secure in your relationship to be involved with someone who is bi.
After all, if you were married, would you have a problem with your wife going out with a guy for drinks? Or going to the beach together? Yet, if one is ambivalent about one's sexual preferences, then I suppose anyone--male or female--that your SO has chemistry with could potentially be trouble.
A colleague of mine's wife went through that. She had a best friend with whom she spent all her free time. Then one day, she strolls in and announces that she was bi, and she was going on vacation with her friend. Chet had serious trust issues from that day forward. They were divorced two years later.
If you don't have to "watch out" for your heterosexual partner to sleep around, you shouldn't have to watch out for your bisexual one either. Committment is committment.
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a man at work showed me this today & I found it comical. 
