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Old 12-11-2009, 05:04 PM
 
Location: Baltimore
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Originally Posted by TKramar View Post
It's sex with someone I love--me. I don't need a partner to have sex.
At certain times, masturbation can be better than sex with a woman. But most of the time, I'd rather have the woman. In some of those instances with said woman, I might prefer her to the manual labor for me, which in most cases feels better than me performing the labor myself
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:05 PM
 
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Hi Repubocrat,

I do not think that is true for some. I even heard of a guy who had no interest in actual women but loved porn. I have no doubt this is skimming some men off the market. I think porn has sapped some interest in woman.

I remember reading this opinion from Naomi Wolf. I Agreed with her.

Naomi Wolf on Why Porn Turns Men Off the Real Thing -- New York Magazine
She is right on. I completely agree and I've held this opinion for a while now. I read it, see it, and hear it on these forums. Porn can completely decimate real sexual tension and excitement that a man would normally feel in a relationship, and it can make a woman feel completely inadequate. I don't judge those who like it, but I do reserve my opinion that you when you let yourself rely on porn, you are becoming somewhat removed from reality, and the more mentally hooked you are on the fantasy, the less you will be able to enjoy the real world. I really do believe this.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:07 PM
 
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It's sex with someone I love--me. I don't need a partner to have sex.


I hope you'll be very happy together.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:09 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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I don't know about happy, content, definitely not UNhappy. Women are the source of all potential unhappiness in my world anyhow.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:12 PM
 
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I don't know about happy, content, definitely not UNhappy. Women are the source of all potential unhappiness in my world anyhow.
What a sad thing. Men have provided so much happiness in mine.
I sincerely wish you better times in the years ahead.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Bradenton, Florida
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good enough is good enough...it's best I stay single.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:15 PM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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I'm happy being single, it doesn't bother me one bit because I can come and go as I please and do what I want, when I want to do it. I don't have to deal with the baggage women tend to bring into relationships and I'm only responsible for myself, not another person. I'm too focused on my career and trying to get into powerlifting and strongman contests to even be checking for a woman.
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Old 12-11-2009, 05:28 PM
 
Location: Northside Of Jacksonville
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If a 26 year old man has no interest in, and chooses not to associate with females, he is either a moma's boy, very very immature, or gay.
It's men like you that are the reason for the term p****whipped. All a woman has to do is serve up the booty on a silver platter and you'll be all over it. Clown
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Old 12-11-2009, 06:26 PM
 
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I'm sure this will get some good feedback, but what the hey.......

If a 26 year old man has no interest in, and chooses not to associate with females, he is either a moma's boy, very very immature, or gay.

Men were designed to be attracted to women, and vice versa.
Hi fletchman1957,

I was a little busy and when I was 26 in a male dominated industry I cannot remember even seeing a girl my age. So you forgot about an involuntary stranded Pacific islander.
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Iowa, Heartland of Murica
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It's sex with someone I love--me. I don't need a partner to have sex.
No offense but some of you people so incredibly WEIRD and you wonder why you cannot find a woman?. You are your worst enemy!
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