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Old 12-10-2009, 05:06 PM
 
Location: beautiful NC mountains!
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my health issues

I've been battling lupus and some other health issues for a long time. About a month ago I found out I had breast cancer. I've just had a mastectomy and it was successful, so I'm now cancer free, but I sometimes wonder how much more my DH and kids can endure.
Sunnydee,
So sorry you are dealing with all of these issues. Just remember...They love you. It's amazing what you can endure through love. Hugs your way.
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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my health issues

I've been battling lupus and some other health issues for a long time. About a month ago I found out I had breast cancer. I've just had a mastectomy and it was successful, so I'm now cancer free, but I sometimes wonder how much more my DH and kids can endure.
Sunny, you have certainly had more than your fair share to deal with!

I am so glad to hear you are cancer-free and hope you are healing well from your surgery

As someone who had a bad few years a couple of years ago myself I can tell you, no matter what your family is just so relieved you are still with them. I know it sucks to have "one more thing" go wrong and you feel like you are dragging your family thru too much, but fight that feeling - they LOVE you and don't blame you okay?
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:32 PM
 
Location: USA
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My daddy issues. Coming soon to VH1.
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:35 PM
 
Location: South FL
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my health issues

I've been battling lupus and some other health issues for a long time. About a month ago I found out I had breast cancer. I've just had a mastectomy and it was successful, so I'm now cancer free, but I sometimes wonder how much more my DH and kids can endure.

Wow, you are one strong woman. A lupus is a hard one to live with. It sure sounds like you have a very loving husband and children who are willing to support you and stick by you.
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:36 PM
 
Location: South FL
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my daddy issues. Coming soon to vh1.
lol.
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:37 PM
 
Location: South FL
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The Biggest Threat to My Relationship is ME.

My husband needs a medal.
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Old 12-10-2009, 05:57 PM
 
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I can go over my list of threats... of my rather future relationship since I'm about to break up sometime next week from now
1) kids... no , don't even mention that to me
2) my sometimes quiet nature, don't confuse that for a doormat though
3) guy that believes acting like a ''stuck-up punk or aggressive as a way to impress me.... no..no..no
4) Man that talks bad about my mother even if she were to be in the wrong... no, I put up with this already.... no more.. my mother comes first.. if guy doesn't like her then take a hike
5) Man who favors corporal punishment for kids rather than using words or other methods
6) Man that's not in college.... had enough of dating a non-college guy
7) Man without a car.. no more of that
8) Man that doesn't like inviting me that much or doesn't buy me nothing but something worth only $1
9) Man who doesn't call me on special occasions such as my birthday or Christmas, etc... he might as well take a hike too
10) Serial cheating history as well as abusive past...
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Old 12-10-2009, 06:25 PM
 
Location: USA
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I can go over my list of threats... of my rather future relationship since I'm about to break up sometime next week from now
1) kids... no , don't even mention that to me
2) my sometimes quiet nature, don't confuse that for a doormat though
3) guy that believes acting like a ''stuck-up punk or aggressive as a way to impress me.... no..no..no
4) Man that talks bad about my mother even if she were to be in the wrong... no, I put up with this already.... no more.. my mother comes first.. if guy doesn't like her then take a hike
5) Man who favors corporal punishment for kids rather than using words or other methods
6) Man that's not in college.... had enough of dating a non-college guy
7) Man without a car.. no more of that
8) Man that doesn't like inviting me that much or doesn't buy me nothing but something worth only $1
9) Man who doesn't call me on special occasions such as my birthday or Christmas, etc... he might as well take a hike too
10) Serial cheating history as well as abusive past...
Yeeps, Sun! Make sure before releasing him back into the dating scene that you Gorilla Glue a big, red, warning Mylar Balloon to the top of that guys head!
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Old 12-10-2009, 06:28 PM
 
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A lethal combination of my hypersensitivity and his innocent stupidity.
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Old 12-10-2009, 06:40 PM
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I love to flirt, banter and flatter women. Its all harmless and done in fun but my SO thinks I will soon get in over my head one day.
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