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Ram charger - think what you want. None of this is made up. I consider her a nice christian girl. She says so herself she is a christian. I just dont like that she gave her life to Christ and did any of this, but it is what it is. I just need help with the breakup. Does everyone think just telling her i cannot get over her past and that i want to break up is the best way of handeling biz?
many people have sex for the pleasure of it. to condemn her for it seems harsh and immature. however if you can't get past it, then do what you have to do. why do you think she would be fragile? perhaps once she gets over the thought that you think she is a bit of a **** she will relieved that you two are no longer a couple. I do think you should keep yours in your pants until you are ready for marriage if this is how you feel about women with past experiences. after all even if you have feelings for them or not, you are contributing to the number toll
Urban sas - Thank you for the lengthy response, i know her feelings will be crushed when ibreak up with her. Is what im trying to do is get it over with while salvaging as much of her dignity as possible. I'm trying to make this as easy as possible for her. Spoken like an educated person though i apreciate your toughts. I do not hold a double standard with her though or women in general for that matter. Thank you once again for the response
Ram charger - think what you want. None of this is made up. I consider her a nice christian girl. She says so herself she is a christian. I just dont like that she gave her life to Christ and did any of this, but it is what it is. I just need help with the breakup. Does everyone think just telling her i cannot get over her past and that i want to break up is the best way of handeling biz?
yes, breaking up (if she indeed does love you) always hurt. no matter what excuse you give her. you just have to pick if you are gonna tell her you think she has had too much sex and you can't deal with it, or if you just tell her you have fallen out of love. like the paul simon song says step out the back, jack, make a new plan stan, and get yourself free
Gopatta - go back and re read. I knew form the getgo she was not a virgin, i didnt know she was with so many men though or else i would have never gotten the ball rolling with her ; )
maui - Thank you for your advice. I guess i just think sex is more of an emotional attatchment than most people do???
Dr. Earth. Clearly you didnt read my first original post. 20 according to my class survey (500 junior and senior level students) puts a girl at the 98% range for being with more partners than any other in the class! For me personally this is way too many!
I did read your post, but if you want to run your life on stats that were taken from a survey of college kids, so be it. However, I doubt many were being honest.
It's your life. If you can't get over your issues, then I wish you good luck on finding a beautiful virgin.
Dr. Earth, like i said before, their is no reason to think the survey was 100% accurate, but i dont think that it was that far fetched from the truth. Obviously the survey was not 100% b/c its mathmatically impossible for women on average to have diff avg sex partners than guys. That is if their is equal amounts of girls and guys in this world. Even if we use the guys side of the survey, the average was 6, so my g/f has more than twice as many partners as the average! I just dont like it!
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