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Old 12-11-2009, 09:21 AM
 
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Where are all the good black men? The ones with jobs, the ones with respect, the ones that are affectionate, the ones who can tell the truth, the ones that are ok with having only 1 woman, the ones that really wanna do something with you besides just have sex! Where are they let me know please!
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Whiteville Tennessee
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Although I am white, i can tell you that there ARE plenty of good,decent black men out there. I work with a number of them. Dont give up. Just think to yourself "where would I meet the sort of guy I'm looking for?" It probably wont be at a club or the street corner. Try the library or church. They really are out there. Good luck young lady and dont give up!
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:32 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:34 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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*doesn't know*

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Old 12-11-2009, 09:35 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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Ok someone did respond after all.

The good black men are being overlooked by black women, not necessarily by the OP.
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:41 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Where are all the good black men? The ones with jobs, the ones with respect, the ones that are affectionate, the ones who can tell the truth, the ones that are ok with having only 1 woman, the ones that really wanna do something with you besides just have sex! Where are they let me know please!

Be prepared to get reamed by some for this one.

With so many women looking for a good man of ANY color, I doubt you will get your answer. Perhaps there is a good black man in this forum who is looking for a woman that has been scorned. What's his incentive??

Good luck!
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Old 12-11-2009, 09:57 AM
 
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Although I can understand the question and all...I do think it comes off a bit bad to ask "where have all the good Black men gone" as if all of them are 2 timing dogs...

And its bad enough to know that there are people out there (mainly of other races) who automatically stereotype Black guys as having baby mamas and bunches of kids too. Why perpetuate the nonsense with a question like this?

On the flip side, I can tell you its not much different in finding other 'good men'. Where have they gone? Well honey I just couldn't tell you that
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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Although I am white, i can tell you that there ARE plenty of good,decent black men out there. I work with a number of them. Dont give up. Just think to yourself "where would I meet the sort of guy I'm looking for?" It probably wont be at a club or the street corner. Try the library or church. They really are out there. Good luck young lady and dont give up!
Same here. I'm white, also. Most of the black people I know, via work, are educated, married with children, have families, involved in the church and/or community. I'm not talking about one or two or even five or ten.

I really don't know any stereotypical ghetto people as seen on TV, so I guess it depends on where you spend your time.
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:06 AM
 
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Where do you look? Not all us black guys are ghetto and shifty.
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Old 12-11-2009, 10:09 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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Where are all the good black men? The ones with jobs, the ones with respect, the ones that are affectionate, the ones who can tell the truth, the ones that are ok with having only 1 woman, the ones that really wanna do something with you besides just have sex! Where are they let me know please!
There are plenty of them around Just open your eyes and you'll see 'em. And try not to lump them all into one category, not really fair

As an aside...if I was a betting woman....I'd say this thread will last til 5pm eastern time.
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