"Whereas men remember their first love, women..." (date, friend, relations)

[Sprawling_Homeowner]

"... remember their first time."

Women, is this true?

[Curmudgeon]

Actually, someone once said, "Men remember their first love, unless she's constant."

Susan B. Anthony was quoted as saying, “Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.”

[WyoNewk]

I remember both, and just as soon as I forget either one, please leave a roller skate on the top step for me.

[yellfire]

For me, every love feels like the first one.

[sophialee]

That's funny because many years ago I saw the guy who was my first and he said to his friends,"this is Sophia, she was my first love!" and kinda laughed. I was thinking...hmmm, he was my first time. LOL

[Sunflower_lol]

LOL, and he's about to be dumped.... as much as I do still recall the exact date (Jan. 4 2007), first love and first time as well it just didn't work out so I'm moving on and well we can still be friend but not relationship material no more, not ever. Now I'm more interest in exploring what else is out there, not a ''Oh my one and only'' commitment type.

[pitt_transplant]

I think guys remember thier best lay. Then the love.

Chicks um.....We try to forget it all. It usually something that works out for the best in the long run.

[Whyte Byrd]

Originally Posted by yellfire

For me, every love feels like the first one.

That could be I suppose, but one stands out above all others for me, not necessarily the first love, but the true love--the love that never died, no matter how hard you try to let it.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

"... remember their first time."

Women, is this true?

I don't think so. In my case they happen to have coincided, though.

As I mentioned on the virginity thread, I did have a huge crush on somebody before that, but the physical act did not happen when I wanted it. For various reasons he felt obligated to step on my brakes. Eventually we made it happen many years later. I really wish we didn't. The sweet memory should've been left alone.

[Urban Sasquatch]

Originally Posted by Sprawling_Homeowner

"... remember their first time."

Women, is this true?

Not a man alive who doesn't remember his first time -- not one.

I say this with the same surety with which I would assert that a man who's been a soldier might not remember his eighth-grade math teacher but he definitely remembers his DI/TI/DS -- always.