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Old 12-19-2009, 07:21 PM
 
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Please advise me.. this lady is getting on my nerves big time.

She's always very friendly to my boyfriend, but not so much to me. Correction - she doesn't every say 'hi' to me. Not even a rubber-band smile. None. And let me tell you that me and my BF live in my house so she is MY neighbour. So anyhow, she's a matured attractive lady maybe (she appears to be in her mid 50s). I'm thinking she's divorced and probably scooped every cent from her ex (doesn't drive out every morning like the rest of us but appears to live expensively). I guess it's a coincidence but she always seems to walk her dog at the same time my BF comes back from work. And she would always engage in numerous long conversation with him; at some point even asking him if we were married, now ain't that funny? (He told me this).

Recently she got herself a new boyfriend, some weirdo-looking guy. So I was like "thanks God for taking wrinkly-face off my back before I do something I would regret later on". But still she seems to bump herself into my BF all the time under the disguise of walking her dog. I observe all this through the windows sometimes. I don't want to come across as insecure but I really want to stop this stupid behaviour. It irritates the crap out of me. What do I do?

BTW, she doesn't threaten me at all it's just that I don't understand why she doesn't give up on him. Surely she knows I'm waaay hotter and younger than her. What man in their right mind would give up "this" for her tired wrinkly face? I mean seriously?
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:27 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Let it go.

She sounds like an old broad just probably trying to get a little affirmation that she's still attractive.

Let it go and through the old broad a bone.
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:30 PM
 
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Please advise me.. this lady is getting on my nerves big time.

She's always very friendly to my boyfriend, but not so much to me. Correction - she doesn't every say 'hi' to me. Not even a rubber-band smile. None. And let me tell you that me and my BF live in my house so she is MY neighbour. So anyhow, she's a matured attractive lady maybe (she appears to be in her mid 50s). I'm thinking she's divorced and probably scooped every cent from her ex (doesn't drive out every morning like the rest of us but appears to live expensively). I guess it's a coincidence but she always seems to walk her dog at the same time my BF comes back from work. And she would always engage in numerous long conversation with him; at some point even asking him if we were married, now ain't that funny? (He told me this).

Recently she got herself a new boyfriend, some weirdo-looking guy. So I was like "thanks God for taking wrinkly-face off my back before I do something I would regret later on". But still she seems to bump herself into my BF all the time under the disguise of walking her dog. I observe all this through the windows sometimes. I don't want to come across as insecure but I really want to stop this stupid behaviour. It irritates the crap out of me. What do I do?

BTW, she doesn't threaten me at all it's just that I don't understand why she doesn't give up on him. Surely she knows I'm waaay hotter and younger than her. What man in their right mind would give up "this" for her tired wrinkly face? I mean seriously?
If you're not worried about him giving you up for her then....don't worry about it
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:33 PM
 
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No, I'm not worried about him leaving me at all. I think she thinks I'm stupid and naive and I'm itching to show her I'm not!
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:35 PM
 
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Let it go.

She sounds like an old broad just probably trying to get a little affirmation that she's still attractive.

Let it go and through the old broad a bone.
LOL! She irritates me though..
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:35 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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No, I'm not worried about him leaving me at all. I think she thinks I'm stupid and naive and I'm itching to show her I'm not!
How old are you.

13???
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:36 PM
 
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How old are you.

13???
Uhmm.. sometimes I think the same way about people younger than me until I see that they are actually not naive..
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:37 PM
 
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LOL! She irritates me though..
I know what you mean!

Maybe next time you see them talking you can put yourself in her eye line and purse your lips and make "kissing noises."

It may not solve anything, but heck, it'll make you feel better. Plus they'll stop their conversation and look back at you.
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:38 PM
 
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Uhmm.. sometimes I think the same way about people younger than me until I see that they are actually not naive..
What Chow was trying to say rather nicely was that you are acting immature.

Seriously - if you're not worried about her stealing your boyfriend why do you care?
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Old 12-19-2009, 07:41 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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BTW, she doesn't threaten me at all it's just that I don't understand why she doesn't give up on him.
It's not your job to understand why she does it, there will never be an acceptable answer. It is your man's job to make it stop if she is overstepping. And if you believe this.....

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Surely she knows I'm waaay hotter and younger than her. What man in their right mind would give up "this" for her tired wrinkly face? I mean seriously?
...why are you so worked up?
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