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Old 12-23-2009, 05:27 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Yes I know there have been numerous threads on this. But for me this is huge. It seems I almost cannot click personality wise and emotionally with girls younger than me. Women anywhere from 5-30 years older then my chances are much higher. Physically there are still alot of hot older women, problem is alot of them are married. The woman I settle down with (If I ever do) will likely be 5-15 years older than me.
In my network of friends and family this is not common at all, but going by this forum I have read many posts by guys around my age who feel the same way. Interesting.

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Old 12-23-2009, 05:56 AM
 
Location: Kansas to Rochester, NY
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If I remember correctly, you mentioned in another post you're 31 so women younger than you in their 20s are still in their "growing up" phase. They are still maturing and learning about themselves and life. Now, not all women are like this. You'll just have to pick them out.

Most women are more established and mature in all aspects by the time they're in the upper 20s into their 30s. Sure you may marry a gal who is 5-15 years older which is admirable because I know most guys tend to avoid older women like the plague (physical features, family, etc.). I bet if you gave it a few years, you'd find a younger gal who is similiar to you or has what you're looking for.
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Old 12-23-2009, 02:03 PM
 
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go for it. It's just a preference like any other.

plenty of 40-something women still have it going on. Society seems to say there is some kind of shame in a younger guy liking an older woman, but I don't see any shame.
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Old 12-23-2009, 04:45 PM
 
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You're not alone, tc. A lot of guys, me included, are in fact interested in older women.
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Old 12-23-2009, 04:52 PM
 
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Yes I know there have been numerous threads on this. But for me this is huge. It seems I almost cannot click personality wise and emotionally with girls younger than me. Women anywhere from 5-30 years older then my chances are much higher. Physically there are still alot of hot older women, problem is alot of them are married. The woman I settle down with (If I ever do) will likely be 5-15 years older than me.
In my network of friends and family this is not common at all, but going by this forum I have read many posts by guys around my age who feel the same way. Interesting.
Many older women are much sexier than the young ones, didn't you know?LOL......
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Old 12-24-2009, 12:21 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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I had a man tell me once "I know older women ... don't have the body of an 18 year old....[smiling and rolling his eyes] ... but who cares?" LOL
Men who enjoy older women are usually in sinc with them sexually, but also they don't need "eye candy" because they are less insecure...generally they don't care whether or not they have children of their own, and they enjoy an older woman's comfort with being in her own skin, even if it's not the skin of a young nubile woman. It's like anything else - it's whatever suits you -- there's enough for everyone to have the type of relationship that fits them best.
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Old 12-24-2009, 12:44 PM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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Hey Im for it. Im almost 32 and shes 40. And its awesome.
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Old 12-24-2009, 01:53 PM
 
Location: S. Florida
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plenty of 40-something women still have it going on.

Oh yeahhhhhhhhhh!!!!
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Old 12-24-2009, 02:00 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Thanks for the Christmas present to all of us over 40 women! You made my day!
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Old 12-24-2009, 03:48 PM
 
Location: In my view finder.....
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Yes I know there have been numerous threads on this. But for me this is huge. It seems I almost cannot click personality wise and emotionally with girls younger than me. Women anywhere from 5-30 years older then my chances are much higher. Physically there are still alot of hot older women, problem is alot of them are married. The woman I settle down with (If I ever do) will likely be 5-15 years older than me.
In my network of friends and family this is not common at all, but going by this forum I have read many posts by guys around my age who feel the same way. Interesting.
Nothing wrong with being with older babes. Ronnie loves the older babes.
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