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Old 12-23-2009, 12:21 PM
 
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Wow..I have to admit that would bother me..

You can find guys attractive still of course but if my wife started getting so flustered and couldnt even look a guy in the eye becasue she was so attracted to him in front of me it would probably bother me..
Oh geez. It's human nature. Are you saying that once you're married you can never be attracted to anyone else?

If that were the truth then there would be no need for vows that promise to stay faithful - it would be a given.
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Wow..I have to admit that would bother me..

You can find guys attractive still of course but if my wife started getting so flustered and couldnt even look a guy in the eye becasue she was so attracted to him in front of me it would probably bother me..
<hi from hell>I wouldn't blame you.</hi from hell>
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:23 PM
 
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Don't get me wrong, I'm devoted to my husband, but I'm still a woman and I know a cute guy when I see one!

Which in your case is the unconventional thick wristed Quasimodo type. He probably gets another lump at the pleasant surprise..
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:24 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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Wow..I have to admit that would bother me..

You can find guys attractive still of course but if my wife started getting so flustered and couldnt even look a guy in the eye becasue she was so attracted to him in front of me it would probably bother me..
I'm just really shy, that's how I am. Or maybe I'm just a huge s*** lusting after other men
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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Which in your case is the unconventional thick wristed Quasimodo type. He probably gets another lump at the pleasant surprise..
Wow, we are kind today.
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:25 PM
 
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Oh geez. It's human nature. Are you saying that once you're married you can never be attracted to anyone else?

If that were the truth then there would be no need for vows that promise to stay faithful - it would be a given.
WHen did i say you cant be attracted to someone i said specifcally i undertsand your still attracted to people when your married

Theres a difeerence bewteen noticing someobdy saying he or she is attractive and getting all flustered and hot bohered to the point u cant look that person in the eye..

Im sure women wouldnt have a problem if their boyfriend or husband said to them that girl over their is so hot i cant even look at her
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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WHen did i say you cant be attracted to someone i said specifcally i undertsand your still attracted to people when your married

Theres a difeerence bewteen noticing someobdy saying he or she is attractive and getting all flustered and hot bohered to the point u cant look that person in the eye..

Im sure women wouldnt have a problem if their boyfriend or husband said to them that girl over their is so hot i cant even look at her
That's just how I am. It's not that I'm so hot and bothered, I'm just shy and awkward around men I find attractive.
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:27 PM
 
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Im sure women wouldnt have a problem if their boyfriend or husband said to them that girl over their is so hot i cant even look at her
Men do this all the time. What is it they say... oh yeah:

I can look, but I won't touch.

Works both ways.
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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WHen did i say you cant be attracted to someone i said specifcally i undertsand your still attracted to people when your married

Theres a difeerence bewteen noticing someobdy saying he or she is attractive and getting all flustered and hot bohered to the point u cant look that person in the eye..

Im sure women wouldnt have a problem if their boyfriend or husband said to them that girl over their is so hot i cant even look at her
My husband is aware of how I am.
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Old 12-23-2009, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Denver Metro
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Which in your case is the unconventional thick wristed Quasimodo type. He probably gets another lump at the pleasant surprise..
You seem to love making fun of me. Glad to know I provide so much entertainment for you.
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