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Old 12-27-2009, 08:37 AM
 
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lol looking is alright, who isnt guilty of this guys and girls.
eyes will always wander.
im at the mall with my girlfriend, i hide it and sometimes a nice girl walks by i do sneak a glance.
when my girlfriend catches me she shrugs it off and says "like you have any chance"
i rarely catch her buy i dont mind, i just give her a funny stare.
its natural, but in the end my girl is the best.
Dont cheat though that is not cool
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Old 12-27-2009, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Victoria TX
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My wife knows what kinds of women I'm attracted to, and she points them out to me. It's a game we play.
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Old 12-27-2009, 10:54 AM
 
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I think this is embarrassing but alright I'll admit it. I'm not exactly a church girl type that would freak out over porn nor see it was ''Omg, he's into it, what now does he loves me'' or ''Omg why does porn exist''?

Actually I'm the other way around but at the same time there's my hidden part. This thing happens if I were to see the opposite sex with either only with a boxer or nothing on whether that be on a magazine from men's health or if I were to accidentally see one online (esp. if he's my type or a celebrity).

My SO was hardly ever on my fantasy when we were doing XYZ. I had to lied to and say yes that I imagine him but no, many times there was someone else instead at random. It was either that or my childhood crush, a celebrity idol.

I guess I'm the minority with fantasies. So not sure why it would be if it was vice-versa situation.
Say if you guys were to catch her staring at a magazine full of men (a celebrity if possible) or if it was online, would it make you jealous or upset you, taken by surprise???. I think that's part of the reason I wouldn't get jealous if I caught an SO into it when I got my own hidden fantasies. The only differences is I might not reveal it nor tell.

Hi Sunflower_lol,

It would not bother me. I don't think I would want a poster of Brad hanging up in our room next to the pink unicorn, but my wife is going to find other men attractive. I find other women attractive. My solution is simple. I am never alone with another woman. All my wife needs to do is the same.
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Old 12-27-2009, 12:35 PM
 
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My wife knows what kinds of women I'm attracted to, and she points them out to me. It's a game we play.

It's in her best interest to do so. Is it not?
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Old 12-27-2009, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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My wife knows what kinds of women I'm attracted to, and she points them out to me. It's a game we play.
Yeah, we play a similar game
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Old 12-27-2009, 12:45 PM
 
Location: So. of Rosarito, Baja, Mexico
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Ok lookie but no nookie.

This is what I heard from my late wife.

I told her that as long as I was breathing I would look at a pretty girl/woman when they are around.

Now to my second wife...also told her of looking...she in turn would bring my attention to a nice looking blonde etc by saying "did you see that blonde that just went by us?...while my answer was not really...saw her about 100 ft ahead coming our way.

Steve
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Old 12-27-2009, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Sure we used to spend lots of time on Waikiki, Kauai, Maui, Hawaii beaches...





Beautiful Scenery.
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