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I can't imagine thinking of a breakup as winning or losing. Both people lose and anyone who thinks of a long term relationship as a game probably shouldn't be dating.
Remembering the other thread, the OP seemed to have trouble convincing herself to actually follow through with the breakup. It was probably best to do it while she had worked up to it, instead of waiting even longer and possibly backing down. Yeah, it sucks because it's Christmas, but would it honestly be much different if she had done it tomorrow? Or Wednesday? They're just days. Yeah, she should have done it before, but something tells me breaking up is not the easiest thing to do. Knowing me, I probably would have beaten around the bush forever trying to avoid confrontation, while the relationship gradually became utterly miserable for both parties. I certainly can't criticize.
How could someone so young think it was the right thing to break up on Christmas Day? Shocking. That takes a lot of cojones on a holiday...I have never heard of this kind of thing on a day like today...just cruel. Speechless.
Wow. Just...wow. Is this all a game to you, Sunflower_lol? When you mature, you will learn that playing games with peoples' feelings won't get you very far in life. You are a very spiteful person and instead of choosing 364 other days of the year, you made a conscious decision to break up with the guy on Christmas Day. And don't say it wasn't a conscious decision...you've been talking about this for weeks; and said yourself that you've been thinking about breaking up with him for 8+ MONTHS. But yet it just happened to be on Christmas Day. Yup. No coincidence there!
I remember in your other thread about wanting to break up with him that you were miffed that he didn't call you on your birthday. Is breaking up with him on Christmas Day payback for that? He botched your special day - so now you want to botch a special day for him? Nice.
But you know what? I'm thinking you gave him a really great present....he certainly deserves better than you.
How could someone so young think it was the right thing to break up on Christmas Day? Shocking. That takes a lot of cojones on a holiday...I have never heard of this kind of thing on a day like today...just cruel. Speechless.
Yeah and then refer to it as "A Christmas Present LOL"
I'm totally shocked and I firmly believe this discussion is closed.
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